Search in your own words. Describe what you need or ask a wedding planning question.
Im just curious..why is it that you want to marry when you are living together...what does marriage mean to you? And is it any diff. if you didnt live with eachother before marriage?
Posted by D's Girl
We have been living together for 2-years now. To me and this is JMO, I would not marry someone unless I lived with them first. I think I truly got to know him and it grew our relationship to such a different level.
We are now getting married because we want to be husband and wife and one day start a family. I don't think it is that piece of paper that changes you, I think that getting married leaves a certain bond & a different kind of partnership.
Posted by D's Girl
We have been living together for 2-years now. To me and this is JMO, I would not marry someone unless I lived with them first. I think I truly got to know him and it grew our relationship to such a different level.
We are now getting married because we want to be husband and wife and one day start a family. I don't think it is that piece of paper that changes you, I think that getting married leaves a certain bond & a different kind of partnership.
Posted by eunicsd006
weve been living together for almost nine years.right now its just something we want to do it doesnt mean anything Im already his wife hes already my husband just a piece of paper giving us a tittle to the whole world.....plus what girl doesnt want a wedding![]()
It already feels like we are married sicne we have lives together about 2 years now. We know we want to be with eachother for the rest of our lives, so why not get married?
We've lived together for 3 1/2 years...been together for over 5...and although we are committed to each other, getting married is 'making it official'....and I must say, that i feel an even greater sense of togetherness now that we are engaged, things that used to aggrivate me don't as much because i realize he has truly made the commitment...not that i didn't have it from him before, but now it's not just words...it's a legally binding contract! hahaha...and you truly don't know someone until you've lived together...spending weekends & vacations together is different than spending every day together....you get to see the toothpaste in the sink, or the socks on the floor, things that can drive you nuts...but you realize you love them more than they annoy you...haha. ....i had a friend that moved in with his FW before the wedding, and they ended up breaking it all off....becuase they just were not compatible in that way...good thing they found out before the wedding!
We've only been living together 8 months but we want to be an official family, have kids together and all have the same last name.
Posted by bettybcafe
awsome response. Ive thought about that too. I always thought you never really know someone until you live with them, because people do change. I guess Ill be taking my chances![]()
![]()
Posted by D's Girl
We have been living together for 2-years now. To me and this is JMO, I would not marry someone unless I lived with them first. I think I truly got to know him and it grew our relationship to such a different level.
We are now getting married because we want to be husband and wife and one day start a family. I don't think it is that piece of paper that changes you, I think that getting married leaves a certain bond & a different kind of partnership.
My fh moved into my appartment about 3 months after we started dating. We are getting married on our 5 year anniversary. I think it was good we lived together for so long so we know what to expect. Now that we are ready to have kids we are doing the legal thing. Plus it is going to make our parents happy. But basically we are already married.
Posted by bettybcafe
awsome response. Ive thought about that too. I always thought you never really know someone until you live with them, because people do change. I guess Ill be taking my chances![]()
![]()
Posted by bettybcafe
awsome response. Ive thought about that too. I always thought you never really know someone until you live with them, because people do change. I guess Ill be taking my chances![]()
![]()
Posted by HamptonsBride
We've lived together for 3 1/2 years...been together for over 5...and although we are committed to each other, getting married is 'making it official'....and I must say, that i feel an even greater sense of togetherness now that we are engaged, things that used to aggrivate me don't as much because i realize he has truly made the commitment...not that i didn't have it from him before, but now it's not just words...it's a legally binding contract! hahaha...and you truly don't know someone until you've lived together...spending weekends & vacations together is different than spending every day together....you get to see the toothpaste in the sink, or the socks on the floor, things that can drive you nuts...but you realize you love them more than they annoy you...haha. ....i had a friend that moved in with his FW before the wedding, and they ended up breaking it all off....becuase they just were not compatible in that way...good thing they found out before the wedding!
Posted by D's Girl
We have been living together for 2-years now. To me and this is JMO, I would not marry someone unless I lived with them first. I think I truly got to know him and it grew our relationship to such a different level.
We are now getting married because we want to be husband and wife and one day start a family. I don't think it is that piece of paper that changes you, I think that getting married leaves a certain bond & a different kind of partnership.
me and fh have been going out for five years and we've never lived together mainly because we cant afford an apartment and we wanted to skip renting all together and save for a house... im happy with the way we've done it though because its that much more exciting to get married to him and then move into our very first house together!!
Posted by D's Girl
We have been living together for 2-years now. To me and this is JMO, I would not marry someone unless I lived with them first. I think I truly got to know him and it grew our relationship to such a different level.
We are now getting married because we want to be husband and wife and one day start a family. I don't think it is that piece of paper that changes you, I think that getting married leaves a certain bond & a different kind of partnership.
