To those who have already been married.....

barbtony Posted: Apr 27, 2010 10:25 AM

To those who have already been married.....

Is all the planning and craziness really worth it????

ETA: stress???

Mrs Z To Be Posted: Apr 27, 2010 10:25 AM

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Very good question!! Can't wait to read ther answers...I' have been wondering this myself.

barbtony Posted: Apr 27, 2010 10:28 AM

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Posted by Mrs Z To Be

Very good question!! Can't wait to read ther answers...I' have been wondering this myself.

I just can't get myself into anymore wedding planning at this point.

Lsorrent Posted: Apr 27, 2010 10:41 AM

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Posted by barbtony

Posted by Mrs Z To Be

Very good question!! Can't wait to read ther answers...I' have been wondering this myself.

I just can't get myself into anymore wedding planning at this point.

Can I help with something???

stinenandy2010 Posted: Apr 27, 2010 10:47 AM

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Definitely, I loved my wedding and enjoyed every moment. Seriously, don't sweat the small stuff.

I hope everything is ok Barb

barbtony Posted: Apr 27, 2010 10:47 AM

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Posted by Lsorrent

I just can't get myself into anymore wedding planning at this point.

Can I help with something???

Thanks Laura - but not this time - think I'm just worn out from tax season and not ready to deal with wedding stuff yet.

SoontobeMrs.Brown Posted: Apr 27, 2010 10:49 AM

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Posted by barbtony

Posted by Lsorrent

I just can't get myself into anymore wedding planning at this point.

Can I help with something???

Thanks Laura - but not this time - think I'm just worn out from tax season and not ready to deal with wedding stuff yet.

Im sorry .. You have plenty of time though .. maybe take a few weeks off to relax :) Feel better!

futureMrsJSL Posted: Apr 27, 2010 11:04 AM

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Don't worry we all go through this at one point of another and I'm sure it will be all worth it. All though time is going fast, us October brides still have about 6 months and so that leaves plenty of time to tie up loose ends.

RitasEngaged Posted: Apr 27, 2010 11:23 AM

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yes it defiantely was

MayBride2010 Posted: Apr 27, 2010 11:25 AM

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I am so with you on this....over the past week I have reached my breaking point

BriansWifey Posted: Apr 27, 2010 11:35 AM

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omg yessssssss! lol.
the day after the wedding i said that all the planning, stress, money, etc was soo totally worth it. it was awesome!

CappyGirl Posted: Apr 27, 2010 11:56 AM

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It's good to hear it was all worth it. Phew!

dfw343 Posted: Apr 27, 2010 11:57 AM

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I LOVED my wedding. It was perfect other than a small snafu...I want to re-live it lol

If I could do it again?

I would go to an island, get married just me and H.

Then have a celebration at a RH somewhere here.

I originally wanted that but couldn't cuz of families.

FutureCap Posted: Apr 27, 2010 11:59 AM

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Posted by MayBride2010

I am so with you on this....over the past week I have reached my breaking point

I also feel your pain. i am so not interested in doing anything else at this point and just feel stressed.
you have so much time tho, so take a break for a few weeks.

barbtony Posted: Apr 27, 2010 12:09 PM

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Thanks ladies. I was just curious!!!!!

StaceYums81 Posted: Apr 27, 2010 11:35 PM

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Meh - not really looking back there was really nothing to be stressed about it was just a really fun day all in all!!

christine2010 Posted: Apr 27, 2010 11:43 PM

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it was worth every moment of stress, every fight,

Lovebug2016 Posted: Apr 28, 2010 12:34 PM

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I didnt see the whole point in having a big wedding bc its one day, alot of money and blah blah blah but H and I caved and had one and it was a blast!! Its totally different when the 150+ are all people you know and are there for you. But we also did it different, we got married at city hall in Oct '09 and had a big reception April 3rd '10. So there wasnt as much stress and nerves as it would have been if we had the whole ceremony and everything. You got time tho

grkbarbie Posted: Apr 28, 2010 12:38 PM

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YES ITS WOrTH IT!

COMMENTS I RECEIVED from ppl the week leading up to the wedding...

'thanks for ruining my friends life'

'when is the old barbara coming back'

'wow psycho , chill the fk out'

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day of wedding. i was soo calmmmmmmm

'wow, your wedding is amazingg'

'now i know why u were a psycho bihch'

so YES! youre REALLLLL friends will forgive u being a neurotic c-unn-t once the wedding is over... and those who r still angry... DUMP THEM!