Today should be an exciting day BUT...

I hit my 3 MONTH MARK today!!! OMG! So much to do BUT...

I found out today that things for my surprise shower are not moving at all. I wanted a surprise shower so I split up the jobs and put my mom in charge of food. My sisters in charge of invites and my BM's in charge of decorations, favors, etc.
WELL...a date has not even been decided yet. I am so disappointed. I have to plan my shower now. I had to set a date and talk to everyone. No one was cooresponding with each other. Maybe it was my fault. Maybe I should have planned it on my own from the start. It just s ucks!

I hear ya on this one.....My shower was planned fine but I was going to plan my Bachelorette party and let someone else take over and they dropped the ball.....and with 3 weeks left I really don't have the time so I will NOT be having one.

I say take over and plan it so you know things wont get screwed up if you really think they cant do it without you.

Im so sorry about your Bach party! That is horrible.
Im def taking over...its just so disappointing that I cant count on my family.

Yeah and believe me I know with 27 days left do not even want to see the BM that was supposed to plan this. I had no problem doing it myself and my MOH/Sis said no but she was overseas for 2 weeks and couldn't plan it so we delegated it to the BM that has been so gung ho to help.....well she never did anything and if she just said so I would have planned it.

THats why I say plan it yourself if everyone isnt reliable....it ***** but at least it will be planned and you will end up being happy.

I should be but right now I am mad and very disappointed......I will probably not deal with this BM again....she is my FH's stepsister which will make things a bit difficult but really she was very selfish in this situation. I have not asked my BM to anything but get the dress and show up so that she couldn't plan or say I cant makes me so angry.....my first bridezilla moment.

I will get excited again but this all unfolded this weekend cause the BP was supposed to be today while FH is away at his.

Try to enjoy the next few months cause the last one is not that much fun....too much stress

I would feel the same way you do! You are not being a bridezilla at all! I woulde react the same way but I would have probably thrown a fit of some sort. I \can be dramaic at times!

I am trying not to stress but I think I am making it worse by trying not to. Today was hard so I know I have many hard times coming my way.

I hope you feel better. I really do!