Told my BM to stand down... ughh

One of the worst things I think I ever had to do, but I had to do it. It was only for the better. Things kept getting worse and worse. I feel somewhat relieved right now that its all coming to an end. After I get the dress back I think I will feel 100% better. I hate I had to go through this 4 months before the wedding. I feel like someone put me through a boxing ring. Ugh. I need a week at a spa!!!

I guess at least I have a back up who would thrilled to be in the wedding - unlike this one - As soon as I get that dress back im asking her.

Ugh - youre not alone in having to do this but like you said its for the better. Im glad you had the courage to do it.

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Posted by SoontobeMrs.Brown

Ugh - youre not alone in having to do this but like you said its for the better. Im glad you had the courage to do it.

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Thanks so much. I appreciate it. I really have gone through a lot in the last 24 hours. I just cant risk ANYTHING for the day of. The LAST thing I need is the possibility of something happening on my day. Sorry if I sound like a Bridezilla - but this is literally the first time I actually feel like one lol

urgh, that totally scks, i'm sorry

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Posted by ACZCAZ10

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Posted by SoontobeMrs.Brown

Ugh - youre not alone in having to do this but like you said its for the better. Im glad you had the courage to do it.

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Thanks so much. I appreciate it. I really have gone through a lot in the last 24 hours. I just cant risk ANYTHING for the day of. The LAST thing I need is the possibility of something happening on my day. Sorry if I sound like a Bridezilla - but this is literally the first time I actually feel like one lol

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No way you dont sound like a bridezilla. You sound like someone who made the right choice for THEIR OWN WEDDING DAY!!

I had three girls back out of mine - all for different reasons and two of them I'll never speak to again (one of them being my selfish a$$hole cousin) ... its for the best though - you really see someones true colors during this time. Hang in there! Your wedding will be amazing now without this drama!!!

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Posted by SoontobeMrs.Brown

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Posted by ACZCAZ10

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Posted by SoontobeMrs.Brown

Ugh - youre not alone in having to do this but like you said its for the better. Im glad you had the courage to do it.

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Thanks so much. I appreciate it. I really have gone through a lot in the last 24 hours. I just cant risk ANYTHING for the day of. The LAST thing I need is the possibility of something happening on my day. Sorry if I sound like a Bridezilla - but this is literally the first time I actually feel like one lol

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No way you dont sound like a bridezilla. You sound like someone who made the right choice for THEIR OWN WEDDING DAY!!

I had three girls back out of mine - all for different reasons and two of them I'll never speak to again (one of them being my selfish a$$hole cousin) ... its for the best though - you really see someones true colors during this time. Hang in there! Your wedding will be amazing now without this drama!!!

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OMG that totaly s$cks! Wow. I give you a lot of credit. That must have been hard. Im having heart palpatations over one girl and you had to deal with 3! id be dead LoL. And its so funny, people say you always lose at least 1 friendship during the wedding process... its so true! This is the second time I had an argument with her (once way before I got engaged) now I really know her true colors.

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Posted by ACZCAZ10

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Posted by SoontobeMrs.Brown

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Posted by ACZCAZ10

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Posted by SoontobeMrs.Brown

Ugh - youre not alone in having to do this but like you said its for the better. Im glad you had the courage to do it.

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Thanks so much. I appreciate it. I really have gone through a lot in the last 24 hours. I just cant risk ANYTHING for the day of. The LAST thing I need is the possibility of something happening on my day. Sorry if I sound like a Bridezilla - but this is literally the first time I actually feel like one lol

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No way you dont sound like a bridezilla. You sound like someone who made the right choice for THEIR OWN WEDDING DAY!!

I had three girls back out of mine - all for different reasons and two of them I'll never speak to again (one of them being my selfish a$$hole cousin) ... its for the best though - you really see someones true colors during this time. Hang in there! Your wedding will be amazing now without this drama!!!

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OMG that totaly s$cks! Wow. I give you a lot of credit. That must have been hard. Im having heart palpatations over one girl and you had to deal with 3! id be dead LoL. And its so funny, people say you always lose at least 1 friendship during the wedding process... its so true! This is the second time I had an argument with her (once way before I got engaged) now I really know her true colors.

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Better off finding out now and putting an end to it

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Posted by SoontobeMrs.Brown

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Posted by ACZCAZ10

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Posted by SoontobeMrs.Brown

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Posted by ACZCAZ10

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Posted by SoontobeMrs.Brown

Ugh - youre not alone in having to do this but like you said its for the better. Im glad you had the courage to do it.

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Thanks so much. I appreciate it. I really have gone through a lot in the last 24 hours. I just cant risk ANYTHING for the day of. The LAST thing I need is the possibility of something happening on my day. Sorry if I sound like a Bridezilla - but this is literally the first time I actually feel like one lol

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No way you dont sound like a bridezilla. You sound like someone who made the right choice for THEIR OWN WEDDING DAY!!

I had three girls back out of mine - all for different reasons and two of them I'll never speak to again (one of them being my selfish a$$hole cousin) ... its for the best though - you really see someones true colors during this time. Hang in there! Your wedding will be amazing now without this drama!!!

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OMG that totaly s$cks! Wow. I give you a lot of credit. That must have been hard. Im having heart palpatations over one girl and you had to deal with 3! id be dead LoL. And its so funny, people say you always lose at least 1 friendship during the wedding process... its so true! This is the second time I had an argument with her (once way before I got engaged) now I really know her true colors.

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Better off finding out now and putting an end to it

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Absolutely! Thats why I had to do it