Tomorrow I visit my dress...UPDATE - Page 2 - or is it??

Original post by Goldi1021

Nov 28, 2005 04:49 PM

... and I know I didn't gain a pound (or lose a pound) since I was fitted for it back in May. So can someone tell me why I have this nauseating feeling in my belly? I dont have jitters - been there - over it. Any thoughts?

BKtoLI Posted: Nov 28, 2005 09:48 PM

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Woman, we want pictures!!!

And I felt the same way the week up to when my dress was in. I couldn't concentrate, I was dizzy and nauceous. It was reality hitting me that I am getting married. As soon as you get the dress on, those feelings will go away!!

As far as your rant, don't worry, that's what we're here for!! While your father will not be there, you will be surrounded by many friends and family that love you like he did. He would want the best for you, and having this day is just as much a tribute to him and what he has accomplished (raising a wonderful daughter) as it is the joining of you and Ed.

I kind of know what you feel like with that. There are many family members that made it to other family members weddings that will not be there for mine. Some of them are still alive, but have health problems. We now have to worry about FH's grandparents also.

You will be gorgeous in your dress, woman. And when that day comes, you will be smiling. And Ed will be smiling. And in that moment, that is all that will matter.

beautyq115 Posted: Nov 28, 2005 09:49 PM

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And not to mention stunning with your new hair style!!!

hmpena Posted: Nov 28, 2005 10:03 PM

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Leslie,

What you are going through is totally normal! You are going to look stunning! And your emotions towards your father are all part of the normal grieving process. I am here for you whenever you need me... but you know that already! I love you girl! You are going to be a beautiful bride and your father will be so proud of you

Goldi1021 Posted: Nov 28, 2005 10:19 PM

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Thanks everyone. I never lost anyone so close to me before. I am blessed with a great support system in my friends (including LIWers, siblings, and Ed. Unfortunately, my mother is not really capable of being the support I need right now in the way I need her. If I cry - she cries and then its a mess. I do not fault her one bit. 49 years of marriage is a long time to suddenly be without the man you created a family with. She often doesn't know how she will carry on as she looks at us and says 'I made you all with him.' I fall apart when she talks like that. I am not with Ed two years yet and two days without him leaves me somewhat empty. My family has showed its strength this year trying to plan this wedding in Dad's spirit. Upon suggestion from another LIWer, I purchased (at Michael's)a small frame (actually a Christmas ornament) to put my father's picture into. I will ask the florist to tie it securely to hang from my bouquet. His WWII dog tag will be sewn into my dress.

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hmpena Posted: Nov 28, 2005 10:22 PM

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Leslie,

I think that is so beautiful! What a great way to ensure that your father will be with you!!

Noiva06 Posted: Nov 28, 2005 10:50 PM

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Awww.... your feelings are absolutely understandable... I think the frame and the dog tags is such a wonderful idea.

ETA: Also take pics and don't forget to post them!

Goldi1021 Posted: Nov 28, 2005 10:54 PM

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I will. I have my bag with my shoes and headpiece and other stuff all together and ready to go. Oh and my camera too.

scocaj Posted: Nov 28, 2005 11:02 PM

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it is natural.. it been a long time in the waiting.. but just relax and enjoy

Goldi1021 Posted: Nov 29, 2005 01:22 PM

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UPDATE:

YOU ARENT GOING TO BELIEVE THIS!!!!

I got a call from Bridal Reflections earlier today and you wont believe this, but apparently, some lightpost fell down in some lot surrounding the building and broke some power lines. They had/have to close the store down from 2:30 for the rest of the day for emergency electrical work so I cannot see my dress until tomorrow. How much does that blow?????? They were very accommodating but I am so disappointed!

johnsae Posted: Nov 29, 2005 01:24 PM

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Posted by Goldi1021

UPDATE:

YOU ARENT GOING TO BELIEVE THIS!!!!

I got a call from Bridal Reflections earlier today and you wont believe this, but apparently, some lightpost fell down in some lot surrounding the building and broke some power lines. They had/have to close the store down from 2:30 for the rest of the day for emergency electrical work so I cannot see my dress until tomorrow. How much does that blow?????? They were very accommodating but I am so disappointed!

That is so something that would happen to me - talk about a freak accident! Can't wait to see pics after your visit tomorrow

hmpena Posted: Nov 29, 2005 01:28 PM

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How upsetting. So sorry Leslie!

cindyandkevin Posted: Nov 29, 2005 01:29 PM

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Oh no, I can't believe that!! Darn nature!!

Lol, I'm imagining a Bridezilla moment here where you yell at them for having the audacity to 'allow' the pole to fall on their building!! As if!!

Better luck tomorrow, can't wait to you in your dress!!!!!!

JessicaM. Posted: Nov 29, 2005 01:30 PM

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Posted by Goldi1021

UPDATE:

YOU ARENT GOING TO BELIEVE THIS!!!!

I got a call from Bridal Reflections earlier today and you wont believe this, but apparently, some lightpost fell down in some lot surrounding the building and broke some power lines. They had/have to close the store down from 2:30 for the rest of the day for emergency electrical work so I cannot see my dress until tomorrow. How much does that blow?????? They were very accommodating but I am so disappointed!

oh man that DOES BLOW. I am sorry. silver lining though...at least it didnt fall into the store or something!

kissy27 Posted: Nov 29, 2005 01:33 PM

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that does stink but be glad nothing happen to the store!!! Gives you one more day to wait

SIBride06 Posted: Nov 29, 2005 01:38 PM

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Strange

Could have been worse.. you could have went there and it was closed. At least they called. I love Bridal Reflections.

Make sure you take pics tomorrow!!!

chikita315 Posted: Nov 29, 2005 01:40 PM

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Damn light poles, first the Thanksgiving Day parade - now this?????

glinda_goodwitch Posted: Nov 29, 2005 01:42 PM

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Aw, that's too bad! I can't wait to see pics tomorrow, though!

Goldi1021 Posted: Nov 29, 2005 02:51 PM

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This was a situation beyond anyone's control. I am grateful that the building didnt catch fire and nobody was hurt AND that dresses weren't damaged. They handled things professionally and promptly. I couldnt have asked for more.