im really starting to regret this big wedding. i never wanted a big wedding, but when we sat down and realized that we were about to invite 250 guests, it became a big wedding. which i did enjoy planning. i figured that we would at a final count of 215, but now we are about 20 under our guarantee. between people that we thought would be there for us that arent and last minute cancelations thats where we are at!!! and now we have put together all our hotel bags, and we have 3 hotel room cancelations= 4 bags. my rehearsal dinner is lacking guests as well because people cant make it, which ok, i understand, the wedding is more important. But AH! i feel so stupid for planning this wedding now.
kris_gets_hitched
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Don't feel stupid. Your wedding with be wonderful!
You can always invite LIW-ers to fill seats!
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dont stress... i am literally going through the SAME THING! important family is nt going to make it and my Bach party was at 20 now down to 10- i don't care because it is the MOST important friends going so I will have a WONDERFUL time!
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im really starting to regret this big wedding. i never wanted a big wedding, but when we sat down and realized that we were about to invite 250 guests, it became a big wedding. which i did enjoy planning. i figured that we would at a final count of 215, but now we are about 20 under our guarantee. between people that we thought would be there for us that arent and last minute cancelations thats where we are at!!! and now we have put together all our hotel bags, and we have 3 hotel room cancelations= 4 bags. my rehearsal dinner is lacking guests as well because people cant make it, which ok, i understand, the wedding is more important. But AH! i feel so stupid for planning this wedding now.
Don't feel bad..i'm 30 ppl under my guerantee. My closest cousins are not coming i have ppl that i never in million year think that wouldn't come. I cried for about a week over this. Thank God for my fiance. I was loosing my mind but at the end of the day i know who is there for me and who isn't in the most important day of my life. It sucks that we have to pay all that money and ppl don't come but don't worry at the end of the day the most important thing is that you are married. Ppl suck!!
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thanks guys
the most important people will be there i know, but it still makes me feel like
Kris- i would feel awkward inviting anyone from here, no offense to anyone, i just never went to any of the get-to-gethers because people dont normally like me. i have realized over the years that i have the 'you either love me or hate me personality' so i avoid situations like that lol no one knows me personally. i certainly would if i met people though. thanks for the suggestion!
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dont feel like that, everyting will work out, and it will be amazing!!
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and after all this is done, you will be crying like the rest of us saying 'I miss my wedding!!' enjoy it now!! it will be wonderful and the greatest day of your life!!! and it's next week!!!
