So the topic of 'engaged' not being a marital status made me think of the last wedding I attended. I consider myself still 'single' becuase I'm not married. So when they called all the single ladies to the dance floor to catch the bo-k, I went up there. FH was in the bathroom and when he saw me out there, he got a little bent out of shape about it. He's like 'You're not single!' I had forgotten about the part with the garter and just wanted the bo-k for luck.
Are the engaged ladies not supposed to go? I thought it was luck for the next couple married?!
PoppedInASnap
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Posted by abrennan01
So the topic of 'engaged' not being a marital status made me think of the last wedding I attended. I consider myself still 'single' becuase I'm not married. So when they called all the single ladies to the dance floor to catch the bo-k, I went up there. FH was in the bathroom and when he saw me out there, he got a little bent out of shape about it. He's like 'You're not single!' I had forgotten about the part with the garter and just wanted the bo-k for luck.
Are the engaged ladies not supposed to go? I thought it was luck for the next couple married?!
I was told that engaged is still single at fbil/sil wedding. lol I didn't go though..
We personally aren't going the bok toss
geegee827
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I haven't gone up for a bo-k toss in years and years and years. I'm just not a fan of it and we won't be doing it at our wedding.
That said, while technically you aren't married yet, if I was at a wedding with FH, I wouldn't get up there.
gina409
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omg this reminds me of a wedding i went to and the girl who caught it was engaged and when they found out i swear they did a redo...i was like omg i cannot believe this..i would totally go up if i was enaged hey u r not amrried so tech u r single right?
Gracie821
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Posted by debzy
Well, technically the tradition says that the girl who catches the bo-k is the next to get married. So I don't see what's wrong with catching (or trying to catch) the bo-k if you're engaged, but not yet married!
