my sister saw my dad in the dr's office today. this si the first time anyone's seen him since he walked on in feb. He blatantly walked into our family Dr office with her, and gave my sister this big smile, and then my sis saw him go to tap his gf I guess to introduce or point our my sister but my sis gave dismissive gesture and walked away. I knew he was going to our fam doctor with her which to me is so utterly disgusting. Who the hell does that? I don't know, it's just upsetting that she saw him. I hope I don't ever have to see him.
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I'm so sorry Jen I'm sure this is the last thing you and your family need (bumping into him). I'm glad your sister walked away...I would have done the same thing.
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So sorry sweetie I can imagine how hurt you are. Thank goodness you didn't see him.
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It's so wonderful that you and your sisters stand you ground with dad and show so much support and respect for your mom. Kudos Jenn.
that's really is a shame. fh's father cheated on his mom for years with- and get this- a woman that sang with him in the CHURCH CHOIR!!!! you can see how religious they really were!
anyway, she has never been allowed near any of FBIL's kids, and she CERTAINLY is NOT welcome at my wedding. funny thing is FH's dad eventually regretted his mistake, begging to come back, but FMIL told him to take a hike basically. (GO FMIL) He know is living ALONE in Guatemala (where he is from) People can be so dumb.
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I'm so sorry!!! I feel really bad for you guys, but it's good that you're all being strong about it! We're here for you!!!
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I'm so sorry you hav e to deal with this but at least your sister stood her ground and didn't cave in I don't know if I would have that will power
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I'm so sorry.
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So sorry hon!
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I am sorry honey ....Its such a hard thing to have to deal with - trust me i know...thank god she did what she did...I am sorry
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so sorry ive been through this stuff before so i know the feelings...
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my sister saw my dad in the dr's office today. this si the first time anyone's seen him since he walked on in feb. He blatantly walked into our family Dr office with her, and gave my sister this big smile, and then my sis saw him go to tap his gf I guess to introduce or point our my sister but my sis gave dismissive gesture and walked away. I knew he was going to our fam doctor with her which to me is so utterly disgusting. Who the hell does that? I don't know, it's just upsetting that she saw him. I hope I don't ever have to see him.
And I thought only my father was up for 'Father of the year' (sarcastic... )
My dad left my stepmom for another woman 3 years after they began their affair (without us knowing, obviously). I only found out because when we had to celebrate christmas with him at his new house with her, they had an ornament which was dated for their first christmas together in 98! Hello.. you only moved out in 01?! yeah.. THEN... they got married, but neglected to tell us.. so instead I had to hear about it from a complete stranger. And he still doesn't understand why my sisters and I get upset sometimes... geez... that Y chromosome really must throw some men for a loop!
Good for your sister...standing your ground is tough sometimes, but worth it.
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I'm so sorry Jen! Try to cheer up though. I can totally relate to how you are feeling my Dad is a jerk sometimes too.
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I can definately relate!.. I haven't spoken to my father in about 5 years. Hes a miserable sob.
Hugs for you sweetiel
What an akward moment for your sister.
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Had I seen him I probbaly would have punched him in the face... Ever since i found out he was bringing her to the family doc I have this fantasy to accidnetlaly spill coffee on her
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thats just a suc ky situation all-around. i've never met the man, but your dad sounds like a jerk and someone needs to put him inn his place. why are men such asshats sometimes?? not all of them, i know. but the men like him realy ruin it for the really good ones, you know
