turning a negative into a positive

I HAVE DECIDED TO TURN A NEGATIVE INTO A POSITIVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

some of you have read and responded to my MIA caterer. thank you for all your kind words!!!! you don't know how much that has meant to me. since i live in nj, i sometimes feel like an 'outsider' but you all made me feel like an INSIDER. and for that i thank you.

now... since i have to go with another caterer, and it's going to be more expensive and i will HAVE to put this on my credit card..... i'm going to do it right.

i originally had decided on a simple dinner to keep my cost down. well, since i'm going in the red ANYWAY.

I'M GOING ALL OUT!!!! i'm going to have the dinner of my dreams to go with the day of my dreams!!!!

i'm not going to go crazy, but i am going to have fun with it. i'm going to get their menu faxed to me here at work so i can start planning asap.

I THINK IT'S TIME I GET INTO PARTY MODE

Good for you! Enjoy your day the way you want it!

yay!! awesome. good for you!! you'll have a wonderful day and a wonderful dinner!!!

yo go girl !

WOW I think that is awesome that you are being so positive!!! Good for you, and you know what, that day is going to be the most beautiful, amazing, and unforgettable day of your life! Congrats!!!!!

have fun with it!

did you ever find out what happened to those other guys?

we haven't been able to contact this woman....

back when i first found out about the insurance paperwork, i told her. she said fine. she called me about a week later, saying that she spoke to rh and that she knew what to do.

last week rh called and then emailed me that they had NEVER heard from this woman.

so, fh called her. she answered her cell phone and him that she was sorry she was dragging her feet, but that she had contacted rh and would be sending the fax.

no fax.

so we call again. her cell was off.

we called for DAYS!!!! either her cell was off or it would go to voicemail.

that's when i decided to send her a fax because i don't have her email address.... HER FAX # WAS DISCONNECTED.

at that point we decided to give her until the end of the day. fh called three more times, to no avail. so we went with plan B.

we then called a last time to tell her that we are taking her to court.

eta: i refuse to let her ruin my day. i'll deal with her when i get back from my hm

what a great attitude!!! good for you!!! I hope your wedding turns out to be the best wedding anyone has ever gone to!!! Here's to you!