two MOHs?

Alright.. this post is half vent half questions lol..

FIRST, let me start off by venting about my cousin. it's assumed that she is going to be my maid of honor.. we're very close and i'm on the outs with my best friend right now. so today i was talking to her about how i want to have both a maid of honor and a matron of honor (my fsil) .. so then she pulls out her martyr card.. oh wah wah wah if you want to pick her over me just do it it's fine whatever bla bla bla.. she then tells me that to have both is me just going completely overboard. hmm.. really? having a maid and a matron of honor is really going overboard? yeah okay.. it's so funny how she never wants anything to do with this wedding but then she gets mad when she finds out she won't be my only MOH.

so ANYWAYS.. my FSIL doesn't know i am asking her to be my matron of honor.. i want to surprise her by just sending her the package. (she lives in CA) so to all you girls who are having two.. how did you ask them? i don't want her to get excited and think she's the only one.. so i want to know what kind of wording should i use?

thanks girls!

me too!

my sister is my maid of honor and one of my closest friends is my matron of honor.

i first asked my kid sis. then after thinking, planning & stuff, i couldn't go on without my friend there too, so i got her a card and gave it to her with a book on 'friend-quotes'. she was thrilled and so am i. i couldn't imagine it without her, so now i have 2!

i am having 2 matrons......my 2 best friends

I couldnt choose between them. They are both perfectly fine with it! They said it was better off not choosing lol

I am having two as well (my two sisters). I never offically asked them it was just known.

As for wording make it pretty straight forward something like.

Having you and XXX by my side

I know that is pretty vague but hopefully you understand what I am saying.