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I really wish I was planning this wedding all by myself. He can never make up his mind. He's got us looking/calling all these photographers when I already know who the best one for us is. And he does too. He just needs to make sure we have 50 proposals before we book. He does that with everything. God men are sooooooo annoying
Its not a bad thing to make sure you check all your options before you book...we did not do this and we ended up switching our photographers. Maybe try to look at it like that?
I have had a similar experience with my FH. When we first got engaged he was like, I don't want to have anything to do with planning, I just want to show up on the day of and be surprised. But of course now he has nothing but opinions on EVERYTHING! He keeps telling me, 'this is what we are going to do,' blah blah blah. I am like oh really is that how it's going to be?! SO annoying.
Oh no believe m eI'm all about covering all aspects and making sure we are maing the right choice, but we've sat with about 10 photographers already and he wants to talk to more. My brain hurts
Posted by MikesBride2B
Its not a bad thing to make sure you check all your options before you book...we did not do this and we ended up switching our photographers. Maybe try to look at it like that?
Posted by annnng
I really wish I was planning this wedding all by myself. He can never make up his mind. He's got us looking/calling all these photographers when I already know who the best one for us is. And he does too. He just needs to make sure we have 50 proposals before we book. He does that with everything. God men are sooooooo annoying
ye this is why i like doing everything myself lol
Posted by adelya21
ye this is why i like doing everything myself lol
Posted by Taunita
Well its always good to look at a couple options but i hate it when you do the work and then they have this gigantic opinion - its like okkkk if you dont like it - you do the hours of research. Mine is all of a sudden interested in flowers - I was like whaaaaa are you kidding me? Maybe I can convince him to bring some home once in a while hahaha. Needless to say choose your battles, so long as you win the war![]()
Hahahaha that is great! I needed a good laugh!
Posted by Taunita
Tell me about it - we've been dating for 5 yrs + engaged for a year and recently moved in together and today he decided to work from home due to the weather so he woke me up with a kiss and a 'hunnie you have some dishes to wash' i was like excuuuuseee me - i wasn't home last night cuz i went to a brides event- but i was like you can do them your self or pay for my lunch today hahaha I dont mind washing dishes but if thats what he -expects- hah you best be damn sure i'm picking out the china patterns and he might be doin some cookin once in a while - its all about the compromisehaha I'm learning to kick those bad habits and 'expectations' in the arse now!!... & when it comes to the wedding keep this in mind ~ I tell him - I've been dreaming about this DAY since I saw my parents wedding album when I was 7 - you've been dreaming about the woman you can bare to have sex with for the rest of your life- you get many days and I get one. So its very important you make that one woman very happy hahaha
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