So last night I couldn't really sleep, I have asked Fh's sister in law to be in the party and she had said yes! I was excited. After I have asked her she had mentioned she wanted to have a baby around the time we get married probably a month after which is great news because they've been married for almost 5 years and I am soo happy they are finally going to have a baby!. So since I heard her saying this I had a talk with her and told her that if she wanted to step out I wouldn't have a problem because I don't want it to make it stressful for her. She told me that she had to think about it because she doesn't know that she can get pregnant when she wants to she has to see. Sure I understand that too but I actually need to start thinking about dresses and stuff. Then I just keep hearing things about 'she might step out' what i don't get is that why can't she just be honest with me I don't mind at all and I won't have hard feelings because of this.! FH has now 1 more GM without a partner he has asked me to find someone else but I don't want to just pick anyone and put it on my bridal party! I want someone that's special to me because that's how it is supposed to be...
The fh made a comment that got me soo ANGRY he said 'since you have a problem with having her pregnant on the BP' I WAS LIKE OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH NOOOOOO U DIDN'T! and I got upset because I won't mind her being in the BP if she wants to but she seems indecisive and that makes me nervous. Now FH has 1 guy without a partner and I don't know who to choose I really don't want to choose anyone else but I know you can have an odd bp but i just don't like it to be odd i don't know what to do anymore I need to vent! sorry ladies for this longggggg message!!
thoughs???
Kiki1103
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Maybe just give her a little bit more time, (I havent asked my bridal party yet), so maybe if she has another couple months she can see if she does get pregnant right away. If she does, then she will have the baby before the wedding and be able to plan better. If she hasn't told you in a couple of months then tell her you need to know if she wants to do it. I understand how you feel though, you just want to get things set. I think it will all work out though in the end. Hang in there!
RitasEngaged
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Posted by Its2Snappy
I would talk to her about it. Tell her that you would love to have her in the bridal party, and that her being pregnant doesn't matter. You just don't want to put stress on her. Give it some more time and she can always order her dress a bit later.
i agree
ITA
also I wouldn't have worry about it being uneven right now FH has one more guy that i have girls and it might be 2
