ugghhh

I swear FH has gotten lazier and more forgetful wince we moved in together!
We sat down in May trying to find dates to have an e-party/housewarming. He had softball every weekend but said not to worry, he will work something out...K, so looks like we aren't having one. My birthday is in 2 weeks and he has been here for 1 bday out of 6 (bc he's away with softball) I gave him a month of date options so he can do something with us.. I figured just nautical mile or pops or D&B-nothing crazy and he can't seem to find a day for me either
I'm just venting bc I found out yesterday that he still hasnt asked my brothers to be in the wedding party bc 'he hasnt seen them' or 'forgot to ask' when we do see them.. Now that the other brother just got engaged, FH will look stupid askin him now, like we just threw him into the mix. Boys are dumb!!!

On the plus side, I am booking photographer today!!!!

Smh.. men! They drive you nuts! I just dont understand their way of thinking sometimes lol

How exciting that your booking your photographer! Who did u decide to go with?

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Posted by jassy119

Smh.. men! They drive you nuts! I just dont understand their way of thinking sometimes lol

How exciting that your booking your photographer! Who did u decide to go with?

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fade to black...lol I'm sure gil will see this before i get there

ugh, it's definitely just men in general. My FH is really good most of the time but then there's time I'm like okayy *** lol.

Exciting you're booking a photographer! Congrats!

Yea I hear u .... and don't understand guys sometimes and that's so sad that he can't make up his mind with your b-day coming up...but with my FH he has not told any of his friends about being groomsman yet and that drives me up the wall ...I just want him to tell them already lol and plus I dont think we r having a eparty too bc everytime I say something about it one ear and out the other .... man

Congrats on booking your photographer!!!!!!

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Posted by Irishbride16

Congrats on booking your photographer!!!!!!

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Thanks!!! Isn't is sad how we are sitting here like 'ugh I can't stand this and that about my fiance. But I just looooove my wedding vendors! They're the best!!!'

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Posted by KristyANDMatt224

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Posted by Irishbride16

Congrats on booking your photographer!!!!!!

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Thanks!!! Isn't is sad how we are sitting here like 'ugh I can't stand this and that about my fiance. But I just looooove my wedding vendors! They're the best!!!'

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Lol

My FH has a selective memory and I am OCD so it really is not a great combination. I remember every detail that he tells me--anything he asks me to do gets done..

If I don't leave a list of things that I need done-- he'll forget. I mean..it's the only thing that really bugs me. I try to remember that most people are not quite as attentive as I am.. but.. overall I have just gotten over it.. I make a list and it gets done.

We also keep a calendar so we can keep all of our classes/work schedules straight and then try to pick date nights from our school & work obligations..

I'm sorry you're having so much trouble.. hopefully things will work out!