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Sorry guys but i have to vent. I am so angry....my bridesmaid keeps on telling me that my wedding is soooooo far away. Im like well not really its a year and 8 months away. then she tells me its almost 2 years away......so shes making me feel like im stupid because im excited and im looking at dresses and doing some things for the wedding. she got married in a matter of 2 months so i guess thats why she keeps telling me mine is sooo far away. but i hate when people say that...its not! I want to plan a nice wedding! ugh...sorry guys i needed to vent and its 12pm and everyone is sleeping and fh is at work!

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I know how you feel.... in all reality our weddings really are just a heartbeat away... espically when your everyday life is super busy.

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i know. i keep telling myself that. and to sound nasty she had a nice wedding but i keep saying mine is going to be different then hers so i just have to take it in one ear and out the other

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Whatever to her.... you do what makes you happy and don't feel like you have to explain yourself to anyone....

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Dont listen to her...I am going dress shopping again next weekend and have done alot for my wedding already and I am getting married after you.

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tell her to shut up! lol she will probally end up doin the same thing to the tee!

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Just ignore her... thats why I dont include most people in on my wedding planning because I dont really care what negative things they have to say. it really isn't that far my life is crazy and I cant believe I have been engaged 4 months already

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I totally sympathize with you! My sister is my MOH. She's in CT. Everytime I talk to her on the phone about something wedding related she gets annoyed. 'Your wedding is still 2 years away. Why are you rushing into everything! You're sucking the fun out of this. These things should be fun and you should be doing them with me, not by yourself.' Anything I mention wedding related has been met with some kind of negative comment. So now, I don't talk about anything wedding related with her

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my mother is like that.. i'm not engaged yet but i'm getting ideas andlooking at places and making list of the places i want to look at and she is like dont you thinks its too soon for that. I have a feeling she isnt going to be excited when i tell her im engaged!

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I notice that people who tell me that are the one's who are married already. My response to them pay for the wedding and I will get marry quicker. Keep on doing what you doing you want to enjoy you wedding planning.!!!

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yeah thats ridiculous...a year and 8 months is NOT that far away... especially because as we've noticed, some vendors are booked ALREADY for the dates that are a year and a half away. so really, i think you're all good planners and you really know tthat you have time to not stress yourself out because you can take one month off for planning now...whereas if you were planning a wedding in 2 months, you dont have time to be a little stress free.

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tell her it's your wedding.. and when she get married (if she's not already), she can decide to get married in a year, but she'll soon realized that it's too much stress to get married in a year...

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I really hate that too! I just tell everyone to shut up, we've been together long enough that we don't need to rush a wedding. That usually puts them in their place.

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I totally understand what you mean. But don't feel bad about what other people say. You are doing what is right for YOU. You don't have to answer yo anyone. You are going to have the best wedding day ever and it will be THAT much better because you waited.

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Thanks guys! i was just so mad last night....she is married but she got engaged and married in a matter of 2 months so i guess i just have to understand why she keeps telling me that mine is soooooo far away to top it off its the fh cousin so i have to be nice i cant really say what id like to lol

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