Ugh, FH and I are fighting. I'm just trying to do a bunch of research so when we're down on LI next weekend we meet with all our preferred vendors and don't waste a lot of time. Now he's mad that I'm not spending enough time with him. I just want everything to be perfect!!
barbeik005
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Oh and he's mad that I'm having a skype date with one of my BM instead of watching a movie. I planned the date before he asked me about the movie!!
bride2be2012
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Aww don't stress! Its kinda cute how much he loves you and wants to spemd time with you!!!
kdm822
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lol ask him if hes on his period... I love when my fh becomes needy and tells me i dont spend time with him too
Alannah22
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Aww, I'm sorry! Wedding planning can get stressful. I love when FH wants me to be around him. He doesn't get like that often, but I love it when he does. I hope everything works out.
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I understand!! There is so much research involved when your planning long distance. I get distracted by my laptop a lot and tend to neglect FH. They don't realize how much effort goes into planning. It iwll be okay, maybe you can plan a date, or even just a few hours wedding free, to enjoy some time with FH
ETA distracted because apparently the other word i used was not LIW appropriate
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That's cute that he wants to spend time with you. It's so rare that FH gets like that so I savor the moments even if causes a fight.
barbeik005
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Thanks for the support girls. I think that he feels a little better that I gave him a wedding job. I appreciate the suggestions. :)
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Posted by kdm822
lol ask him if hes on his period... I love when my fh becomes needy and tells me i dont spend time with him too
HAHAHA you are bad!
Bride in 2012
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That's cute that he wants to spend time with you. Don't let it stress you out
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Posted by linda_art
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lol ask him if hes on his period... I love when my fh becomes needy and tells me i dont spend time with him too
HAHAHA you are bad!
lol ... i always ask my Fh this.. I swear hes gotten it so many times now with the wedding plans. But it is true i do get distracted by my comp when it comes to searching for wedding things.. So now i dont go on the comp when hes around
Hows his wedding job going?
mjm2012
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aww. i get the same thing. fh says that if he was a computer or my bb that he'd get a lot more attention.
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FH wanting to be with you and spend time with you is not a bad problem to have!! I've gotten into a few arguments with FH where I have stuff to do and he complains about it taking time away.
Try talking to him about how it means a lot to you toget these things done - can't he come with you anyway?? Just try to compromise and all will be fine! Don't stress!
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We're living in Poughkeepsie, so all the planning has been done from a distance so far, just researching the different places and setting up the appointments for the time being. He's going to come with me for all the appointments :)
His job is going well, I told him he can pick the final DJ that we're going to see and to set up an appointment with them. I think he just wants to be more involved.
And we're going to go hiking this weekend, just the 2 of us, so we'll have some time away from the wedding stuff!
