Ugh, I wish the wedding was here already! Updated with New Drama
Ok, now the stress is really killing me!
Nothing seemed to go right today at all.
Whether it was the million arguments from customers at work, or the fact that my dad, brother and nephew decided not to get their tuxes at Mens Wearhouse where FH and best man are getting them from b/c the girl in the store was rude so they left,
or the fact that i get an email from soon to be ex sister in law that she feels its unfair that she cant come to the wedding when her son is my ring bearer. I am sorry, but when you walked out of the house over a year ago, you made it pretty clear you dont want to be part of our family. I could see if i was getting married at a church, different story, but it would only cause stress for everyone is she shows up to RH, plus I am afraid it would upset my nephew if she was there and then left. It would also upset my father (who is emotional irght now due to his prostate cancer treatments), and everyone else.
Sorry for the long vent, just needed to get that
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UPDATE:
Evil soon to be ex SIL is mad b/c she was told it wouldnt be a good idea for her to attend ceremony now starts playing the 'maybe I wont let my son go to the wedding, its my weekend to have him anyway.' So, my dad tells me it would be better to just tell her that she should keep my nephew home so that no drama is caused. Well, although I kept my composure intact while on the phone with my dad, once we hung up, I started crying hysterically for about an hour, between dry heaving and hyperventilating. I couldnt imagine my wedding day without my nephew being there. My dad called me back later in the day and said he could tell how upset i was, so he had it out with her and my nephew will be able to be in the wedding.
Then, I spend the day with my mom today shopping for a new dress![]()
My aunt decided to purchase a dress so similar to my moms dress, same color and everything! My mom was upset and said something to my aunt and my aunt told her to stop worrying about it.
PS, the new dress is even more beautiful and she looks even better in it!!!!!
Nothing seemed to go right today at all.
Whether it was the million arguments from customers at work, or the fact that my dad, brother and nephew decided not to get their tuxes at Mens Wearhouse where FH and best man are getting them from b/c the girl in the store was rude so they left,
or the fact that i get an email from soon to be ex sister in law that she feels its unfair that she cant come to the wedding when her son is my ring bearer. I am sorry, but when you walked out of the house over a year ago, you made it pretty clear you dont want to be part of our family. I could see if i was getting married at a church, different story, but it would only cause stress for everyone is she shows up to RH, plus I am afraid it would upset my nephew if she was there and then left. It would also upset my father (who is emotional irght now due to his prostate cancer treatments), and everyone else.
Sorry for the long vent, just needed to get that
out
UPDATE:
Evil soon to be ex SIL is mad b/c she was told it wouldnt be a good idea for her to attend ceremony now starts playing the 'maybe I wont let my son go to the wedding, its my weekend to have him anyway.' So, my dad tells me it would be better to just tell her that she should keep my nephew home so that no drama is caused. Well, although I kept my composure intact while on the phone with my dad, once we hung up, I started crying hysterically for about an hour, between dry heaving and hyperventilating. I couldnt imagine my wedding day without my nephew being there. My dad called me back later in the day and said he could tell how upset i was, so he had it out with her and my nephew will be able to be in the wedding.
Then, I spend the day with my mom today shopping for a new dress
My aunt decided to purchase a dress so similar to my moms dress, same color and everything! My mom was upset and said something to my aunt and my aunt told her to stop worrying about it.
PS, the new dress is even more beautiful and she looks even better in it!!!!!
