UGH! Stupid EMAIL! UPDATE

My MOH and I have been talking all morning about a BM that I am considering letting go.........Well, my MOH forwarded the ENTIRE string to ALL of my bridesmaids AND my friends who are going to my Bachlorette party by accident......

Everything I said, I was being honest about , BUT the fact that EVERYONE read it is just horrible! BLAH! SHE doesn't even know I felt that way yet!!!!! I am so ill to my stomache right now!!! I was planning to talk to her this weekend.......ugh! Just don't know what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!





UPDATE:

UGH! My BM called me today........at first I was hestitant to answer the phone, but I did . I'm happy I did because I was able to tell her EVERYTHING that I've wanted to tell her in the beginning........PHEW!!! Finally, she knows!!!!! I feel better, but I can't say she does. She is still upset about it all being sent to EVERYONE.....which I totally understand because I was upset about that too.....BUT, there was nothing we could do about it. But one good thing is that she was grateful for me telling her and she said one of my best qualities is that I tell it like it is......brutal honesty.......and I have to agree with her, that's who I am

Just glad that's kinda over now........I don't feel like puking any more........

omg ..I am so sorry...is there anyway she can unsend it.??.i know with aol email you can if it has not been read...

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Posted by E and B123

omg ..I am so sorry...is there anyway she can unsend it.??.i know with aol email you can if it has not been read...

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most of them have hotmail and when you recall the message, it doesn't come out of hotmail.......

Oh no

I am so sorry

ugh that stinks! Sorry babe. Hope this doesn't get out of hand.

ouch ....sorry hun hugs to u!!

omg!!! i'd kill my MOH! can you get ahold of your BM before she reads it so you can explain??

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Posted by qtdimps23

omg!!! i'd kill my MOH! can you get ahold of your BM before she reads it so you can explain??

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I'm trying to right now. It just ***** that EVERYONE else read it too......

omg....i am soo sorry!!! try and get a hold of her before she reads her e-mails,....

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Posted by billandme

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Posted by qtdimps23

omg!!! i'd kill my MOH! can you get ahold of your BM before she reads it so you can explain??

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I'm trying to right now. It just ***** that EVERYONE else read it too......

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i totally understand that. have your MOH send another email saying how sorry she is that she made a mistake to everyone. while at the same time you email/call/fax/telegram your bridesmaid. im so sorry....this is like another topper for you.

Well, now you can't avoid the situation. I would call your BM and apologize that everyone got exposed to your business but that what you said in those e-mails was the truth and you were planning on talking to her about the situation anyway.

In the end it may be a good thing that it happened. Maybe she will just bow out. I just hope that it doesn't put a sour taste in anyone else's mouth because you were talking about someone behind her back. I'm sure that this girl has been a problem for everyone else and it may provide a sigh of relief too all involved that she is being taken care of.

Keep us updated! I'm just dying to know how she reacts!

Sorry that happened to you, hope it all works out!

How did she send an e-mail between the two of you out to all of your BMs and friends??

I'm so sorry this happened!!!!!!

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Posted by billandme

My MOH and I have been talking all morning about a BM that I am considering letting go.........Well, my MOH forwarded the ENTIRE string to ALL of my bridesmaids AND my friends who are going to my Bachlorette party by accident......

Everything I said, I was being honest about , BUT the fact that EVERYONE read it is just horrible! BLAH! SHE doesn't even know I felt that way yet!!!!! I am so ill to my stomache right now!!! I was planning to talk to her this weekend.......ugh! Just don't know what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!

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She can recall the message if it's not too late and at least some people wont read it!

omg thats HORRIBLE

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Posted by DNicholes

How did she send an e-mail between the two of you out to all of your BMs and friends??

I'm so sorry this happened!!!!!!

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You know how you can create 'groups' in your outlook? Well, she accidentally added the Bachlorette pary group to OUR email.......It was just freaky how it happened.......

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Posted by billandme

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Posted by DNicholes

How did she send an e-mail between the two of you out to all of your BMs and friends??

I'm so sorry this happened!!!!!!

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You know how you can create 'groups' in your outlook? Well, she accidentally added the Bachlorette pary group to OUR email.......It was just freaky how it happened.......

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oh man, what are the odds

omg...that is horrible....i would feel so sick to my stomach too! Im sorry this is happening but now it is completely out of your hands and you have to clean up the mess your MOH accidentally put you in...The worst part is its not even your fault...

OH No! That really stinks... Sorry that happened.