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Ughhh!!!

LoveyDovey Posted:

Ughhh!!!

so be honest tell me if im overreacting...

I invited my gf/bm to the bridal show weeks ago when I first saw the AD

she calls me today...leaves me a voicemail...

that her sister broke up with her bf and is sad and doesn't want to be alone, so can she come to the bridal show??

***??!!! I was looking forward to spending time with my gf today, doing bridal things...

do you reallllllly think its a good idea to bring your on the rebound sister to a bridal show???!!!

and none the less, do i really want to hang out with your sister during this? like come on!!!!! i wanted to hang with my gf and have fun...now im just annoyed!


ugggghhhhhhhhh
VCanizalez Posted:

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Damn it!!!
Sux!!!!

Nop I would tell her straight up....
U should too....

especially if u want to talk bout wedding and things like that, nop...

Nop....
nop...

I am not being mean but NOP!!!!!!!!!!!!
WeezyGirl2354 Posted:

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That is the LAST place a woman should want to go after breaking up w/ a BF.

did your friend check in w/ her sister about this?? b/c seriously - that makes NOO sense to me
VCanizalez Posted:

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What if u tell her its onlye RSVP?

evita2781 Posted:

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Posted by WeezyGirl2354

That is the LAST place a woman should want to go after breaking up w/ a BF.

did your friend check in w/ her sister about this?? b/c seriously - that makes NOO sense to me



ITA - she would probably get even MORE upset if she came tonight
LoveyDovey Posted:

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do u think i should tell her this??

i dont want to hurt her feelings

and the RSVP thing wont work...I originally RSVP'd 3 people...what if she sees the paper?? lol
mrsq2be Posted:

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Posted by WeezyGirl2354

That is the LAST place a woman should want to go after breaking up w/ a BF.

did your friend check in w/ her sister about this?? b/c seriously - that makes NOO sense to me



i agree
allornil Posted:

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do you think she wont go with you if you say no to the sis?

I agree the last place that girl should be at is a wedding showcase!
Panamasweet Posted:

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I would be just as annoyed.....You have to be careful though. You dont want to hurt your GF feelings about not wanting her sister around.

VCanizalez Posted:

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Posted by LoveyDovey

do u think i should tell her this??

i dont want to hurt her feelings

and the RSVP thing wont work...I originally RSVP'd 3 people...what if she sees the paper?? lol



Yep tell her...
a Wedding Show case is NOT the place for a heartbroken person...

TELL HER!!!!!!!!
FutureMrsDe Posted:

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at lease she didn't say she wasn't coming at all.
jwleewedding Posted:

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i think you should speak to her about this. if she is a really close gf, she should be able to understand the situation and realize that brining someone on the rebound to a bridal event is only going to make the sister feel worse, not better.

it's only a 3 hour event, she'll have plenty of time to go home to her sister and offer a shoulder to cry on!
HoopsnYoyo Posted:

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Posted by WeezyGirl2354

That is the LAST place a woman should want to go after breaking up w/ a BF.

did your friend check in w/ her sister about this?? b/c seriously - that makes NOO sense to me



Agreed. Why would your friend think of bringing her sister, who just broke up with her bf, to a bridal show? I dont think your friend was thinking!!!

Hmmm.... I think you should tell her that it's RSVP only?
HoopsnYoyo Posted:

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Posted by jwleewedding

i think you should speak to her about this. if she is a really close gf, she should be able to understand the situation and realize that brining someone on the rebound to a bridal event is only going to make the sister feel worse, not better.

it's only a 3 hour event, she'll have plenty of time to go home to her sister and offer a shoulder to cry on!



Agree with this too!!

It's only 3 hours! It's like it's a whole day thing!!!
LoveyDovey Posted:

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thanks girls...she is at work...so i texted her...

saying i think its RSVP only

and second 'are you sure you want to bring your sis to a bridal event? thats the last place id want to be if i was post break up'


panama...i agree with you... I dont want to hurt her feelings either!


FutureMrsCarvell Posted:

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I would explain that it's not really appropriate....Tell her that after the show maybe you'll go back to the house with her and cheer up her sis or something....

ETA- i can't spell for SHYYYT
Moonmist09 Posted:

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give her the option. tell her its not a good idea in your opinion to bring her since she just broke up and this is all wedding related.
if she still wants to come, she'll be miserable - but hopefully, she'll keep it to herself and allow you two to have a fun time.
if she were smart, she would stay home
LoveyDovey Posted:

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ugghhhh i have a feeling im going to end up being dissed

she hasnt responded with an answer yet

i told her that i need to know whats going on so i can make other plans

i already called 2 of my gfs and they cant attend

im so mad right now!!!

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