ughhhh my bridesmaidzilla is at it again

fsil has done nothing but give my sister (MOH) a headache about all the decisions they have been making about my shower/bach party.

shes super demanding and has a problem with everything if she doesnt get her way. my sister constantly tries to tell her that she appreciates her input but there are 9 bms so we have to be a little more flexible.

well FSIL sends my sister a nasty email today basically saying shes unhappy with everything that has been decided and that my sister has been making a lot of the decisions on her own. and going on and on about what she wants.

my sister wrote back basically saying that she has gotten input from the girls but as MOH its her job to make the final decisions (esp with so many girls). and that all FSIL has done is give her a headache. My sister basically told her this is supposed to be about me and so if she is so unhappy with everything she can stop being involved.

i am so frustrated that FSIL is giving my sister such a hard time. I wanna say something but its hard when i dont have a lot of details bc the shower is supposed to be a surprise. its esp frustrating when this bridesmaidzilla is someone you were sort of forced to include to begin with

tell fh to tell her to stop being a biotch or get out!

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Posted by brittndave

tell fh to tell her to stop being a biotch or get out!

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yeah i just told him he needs to talk to her.

Personally, I feel like you shouldn't know about the drama going on. Have your MOH go to your FH and tell him since it's his sister.

I agree, MOH has to make the final decision on things after getting input from everyone else. Executive decisions I call them lol.

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Posted by AdriandSteve

Personally, I feel like you shouldn't know about the drama going on. Have your MOH go to your FH and tell him since it's his sister.

I agree, MOH has to make the final decision on things after getting input from everyone else. Executive decisions I call them lol.

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yeah i mean i think my sister is just venting...she isnt telling me details about everything that FSIL is annoyed about. but she is just so frustrated bc she's been dealing with FSILs drama for months.

Ugh! Thankgoodness for your sister, hopefully FSIL gets the hint! How can people be so selfish??? I can't wait to hear what kind of email your sister gets back!!!

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Posted by Becca2010

Ugh! Thankgoodness for your sister, hopefully FSIL gets the hint! How can people be so selfish??? I can't wait to hear what kind of email your sister gets back!!!

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this happened with my brother's wedding and i dont think that the BMs should have let the bride know all the drama thats going on. the bride got involoved and it got so messy that someone got kicked out.

good for your sister for sending that email. but maybe FH can put her in check? are they close like that?

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Posted by cateydee

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Posted by Becca2010

Ugh! Thankgoodness for your sister, hopefully FSIL gets the hint! How can people be so selfish??? I can't wait to hear what kind of email your sister gets back!!!

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this happened with my brother's wedding and i dont think that the BMs should have let the bride know all the drama thats going on. the bride got involoved and it got so messy that someone got kicked out.

good for your sister for sending that email. but maybe FH can put her in check? are they close like that?

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yeah he said hes going to call her and just see whats going on. i dont want it to cause more drama for my sister but i basically want him to tell her she needs to relax and realize that with 9 bridesmaids she can't get her way on everything.

i am sooo with you on the FSIL bridesmaidzilla!!!

i would love nothing more than to slap my FSIL!!! shes been ridiculous!

i hope your FSIL learns to just go with the flow and not create such issues! the good part is you'll be married in almost 3 months and everything will be ok

So sorry you and your sister have to deal with this. Good for your sis to send that email. Hopefully she will 'get it' and FH's input can help.