my girlfriend offered to help me plan my wedding.. we used to work together. she is a graphic designer so i said sure! can u do my save the dates.. she said of course and did them. and they look GORGEOUS! but i have been sitting here fiddling around with my computer and put together one i like better..
now should i tell her, thanks but i'mma use mine? or just send her and my old coworkers the one she made, and use the other one that I like for everyone else?
i don't want to hurt her feelings or upset her, and she took a lot of time to do these for me with a young baby at home..
any suggestions?
emcheung
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maybe you can incorporate a little bit of her idea with a little bit of your ideas. i would approach her and say that you love the one she designed but i would love it better if it included this. that way maybe the two of you can come up with maybe an even better idea.
Send half and half use yours for yours and FH family and use hers for yours and FH friends
Pinkiegirll07
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Honestly, I would use the ones she made you. If you didn't like them I would say not to use them, and make your own, but your post says they are gorgeous...so rather than offend her I'd use the ones she made!
the future mrs m
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hmmm... send the ones she made to ppl she knows and the ones you made to everyone else
DiamondPipa
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Posted by DINAAMATUCCIO
Send half and half use yours for yours and FH family and use hers for yours and FH friends
this is an excellent idea!!! that way you can excuse the fact that you made another one!