uh oh! invite RSVPs

kbond06 Posted: Apr 09, 2009 10:12 AM

uh oh! invite RSVPs

I think I messed up.

I moved out last year and changed my mailing address, but I want my RSVPs to go to my mom's house b/c some TRADITIONAL relatives don't know I moved before my wedding lol....so my RSVPS say my name and my old address

but now I feel they will ALL be forwarded to my newer address....

I WANT them to go to my parents, so do I have to go to the Post Office and CHANGE it AGAIN??

does anyone know the process??

kbergen75 Posted: Apr 09, 2009 10:19 AM

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I think when you first moved out, if you went to the post office and forwarded all your mail to your new address then yes the rsvp's will go to your new address. But if you didn't go to the post office to forward mail and just changed your address with your bills then the rsvp's will go to your parents.

EsquireBride Posted: Apr 09, 2009 10:20 AM

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Does it matter? The guests who send the RSVP will never know it it is forwarded.

littlepixie12 Posted: Apr 09, 2009 10:21 AM

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well just leave it because everyone will think you are living at home but the RSVPs will actually go to your new address and even if some dont get forwarded they will go to your mom anyway, so you should be okay

kbond06 Posted: Apr 09, 2009 10:27 AM

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do you think If I leave the forward, some will get lost in transit? Luckily I'm only haveing about 120, so like 60-0 RSVPS would need to be forwarded

or...

Is there a way to release the forward?

kbergen75 Posted: Apr 09, 2009 10:29 AM

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you can stop forwarding you just have to go to the post office but then all your mail will not be forwarded

kbond06 Posted: Apr 09, 2009 10:32 AM

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ok I think I'll stop the forward

All my bills have my new address and I pay online anyway, so I might benefit and my mom will get all my JUNK mail

Thanks girls, I built this up to be 'the end of the world' haha, thanks for the help

debzy Posted: Apr 09, 2009 11:06 AM

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How long ago did you forward your mail? It's not good forever. I thnk it expires after 1 year.

sharivera Posted: Apr 09, 2009 11:14 AM

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Posted by EsquireBride

Does it matter? The guests who send the RSVP will never know it it is forwarded.

the only problem with that is that if you did a change of address with the post office...sometimes things take over a week to go from the old address to the new one! ugh...