i have a strong suspician of the date of my suprise shower.. i just got another shower invitation with that particular date.. how do I rsvp???
Causally mention the date to your MOH and tell her you were invited to blah's shower - what should I get her. If there is a problem with the date she will either flat out tell you or subtly let you know. It happened to me. They made the date and I had an appointment scheduled for the same time with my dermatologist, needless to say I changed the appointment when my BM freaked on the phone. I took it as ok, need to keep the date free. This invite could also be a rouse.
thanks! had to vent to someone!!!
Mayeb that is how they are getting you to YOUR shower?
Posted by Jen2999
Mayeb that is how they are getting you to YOUR shower?
Definitely casually mention it to your MOH or someone you think has a hand in planning your shower. If they don't freak out or say anything RSVP to it as you would normally. And who knows? Like the other girls said, maybe it's really for you!
Posted by Jen2999
Mayeb that is how they are getting you to YOUR shower?
i was orignially thinking the same thing, but they were hand made and there was a sticker on the back with the womans name and I know this is one of the brides friends... pretty funnny though!! you girls are good.
I would just RSVP - yes, then mention it to someone. Technically, you're not supposed to know about it anyway. Let your BM's and/or MOH worry about getting you there. But I think it just might be your own shower too!
