Unbelieveable ettiquete

Very self-centered and selfishly rude person.

I agree - Rude!

That is definately rude

Extremely rude! You have to send thank-yous to everyone who gave you a gift/attended the wedding. Can't just pick and choose not to bc you see people everyday. As if!!

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Posted by TreAnt425

I think it is VERY rude too - you should be sending Thank yous to ANYONE that gave you a gift

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Yeah, and he's a hippocrite too. So I was telling him how my FH came up with this computer program that has our guest list, and how it calculates how many invites, STD magnets, favors, thank yous need to be sent out. I said that as people RSVP, we plug it in, and if someone RSVPs 'No', then it subtracts the amount of guests and the amount of Thank yous that need to be written. But of course that is with the assumption that people who RSVP 'No' won't send a gift. Of course if they send a gift I would write a thank you. So he asks, 'But what if they say No and send a gift? You're not going to write a thank you?' Well, we came and gave a gift, and you didn't send a thank you, so how can you ask that of us (even if he misunderstood)! Some nerve!

Lol... I am also waiting for thank yous from a wedding last August...must be the same person. How Rude No Excuse

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Posted by ElegantBride

Lol... I am also waiting for thank yous from a wedding last August...must be the same person. How Rude No Excuse

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Haha! Was it in Baltimore?

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Posted by M&S Sept292006

Very self-centered and selfishly rude person.

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I agree. Super rude.

His wife must be just as rude.....b/c SHE should have at least taught him the correct ettiquette to send a Thank you.....I dont care who the hell you are or how often I see you.......

That is equivalent to have someone not send in their response card, b/c when they see you, they'll tell you.

OK ...Now I am heated.....

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Posted by tray831

His wife must be just as rude.....b/c SHE should have at least taught him the correct ettiquette to send a Thank you.....I dont care who the hell you are or how often I see you.......

That is equivalent to have someone not send in their response card, b/c when they see you, they'll tell you.

OK ...Now I am heated.....

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Nope, actually she sent thank you's to her side of the family 2 months after the wedding!! They decided to do them separately, so she would do the ones for her side, and he would do the ones for his side!

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Posted by glinda_goodwitch

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Posted by tray831

His wife must be just as rude.....b/c SHE should have at least taught him the correct ettiquette to send a Thank you.....I dont care who the hell you are or how often I see you.......

That is equivalent to have someone not send in their response card, b/c when they see you, they'll tell you.

OK ...Now I am heated.....

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Nope, actually she sent thank you's to her side of the family 2 months after the wedding!! They decided to do them separately, so she would do the ones for her side, and he would do the ones for his side!

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As much as I made DH write out his family's thank you's (especially the ones to relatives in Poland, because I don't speak or write Polish) I would never take it for granted that he would send them. I would be horribly embarrassed if he was my husband. I think somehow it is going to reflect negatively upon the bride, even though it was his responsibility.

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Posted by xjulietx

As much as I made DH write out his family's thank you's (especially the ones to relatives in Poland, because I don't speak or write Polish) I would never take it for granted that he would send them. I would be horribly embarrassed if he was my husband. I think somehow it is going to reflect negatively upon the bride, even though it was his responsibility.

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Okay, so this is funny: He told me this is what his wife said to him: 'If you get your thank you's out by August, you're a busy scientist. If you get them out after August, you're a jerk' First of all, he's a first year grad student (I'll be a 4th year by the time I get married and have to write thank yous, way more engrossed in work for my thesis).

Second of all, you had all this leisure time to start learning the banjo, but you can't write like 5 thank you's a day? It would take at most 3 weeks if he did that. I hate when people use the 'busy scientist excuse' for why they don't do things. I'm a scientist in training and I never use that excuse. If I don't do something, I'll be honest: its because I'm lazy!!

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Posted by glinda_goodwitch

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Posted by ElegantBride

Lol... I am also waiting for thank yous from a wedding last August...must be the same person. How Rude No Excuse

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Haha! Was it in Baltimore?

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A NY Bride.....how sad. I know people say not to stress when people don't send thank you cards but there is absolutely no excuse. If they had the time to open the card...cash the check, deposit the money. Time could be made for a T.Y. ...even if the pics did not come in from the photographer. Hallmark sells thankyous! I can not stand for lack of manners or common sense. I feel your pain on this one.