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Uneven wedding party?

Marchbride07 Posted:

Uneven wedding party?

I am just posting up a storm today! I have another one coming soon! LOL sorry, boss is away, sooo bored at work!

Ok so I have one guy walking down with two girls...hwo do they dance with each other during the first dance? Am I silly to even be worrying about this? How are they introduced?

BLAH! Thanks in advance
qtdimps23 Posted:

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im dealing with this too. i have 8 girls and 7 guys. im just going to ask one guy ahead of time to invite his girlfriend up to dance. we're very close with her so it's ok.

EverlovingEv Posted:

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I might have the same prob and also worrying about this so you're definitey NOT alone :)
Wondering what everyone has to say about this
qtdimps23 Posted:

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i just realized i reversed that! lol im gonna have one girl bring up her boyfriend. now u got me confused!
EverlovingEv Posted:

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Posted by qtdimps23

i just realized i reversed that! lol im gonna have one girl bring up her boyfriend. now u got me confused!

Tiggeruth Posted:

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Our bridal party is uneven (5 girls, 3 bots) but I am not going to specifically have the 'bridal party' join in the dance, we are going to open it up to everyone

jenafee Posted:

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Posted by Tiggeruth

Our bridal party is uneven (5 girls, 3 bots) but I am not going to specifically have the 'bridal party' join in the dance, we are going to open it up to everyone



That's a good idea. I've been in wedding parties where they have been uneven plenty of times, usually the girls side have more (figures right!!), anyway... When walking down the aisle there were two girls w/ one guy. When dancing the first dance, we either just danced with our boyfriends or our date while the other couple danced together. It works out either way.
eelharas4700 Posted:

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I'm in the same boat....I have 6 bm 5 gm and a jr gm......heck if i know what to do with any of them!!

misshealey1974 Posted:

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I have an uneven wedding party as well, and I am doing the same, just having each person dance with whomever they want..that way it wont be so obvious that it's uneven

Shmar Posted:

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I have an uneven party too. I have 7 girls, he's got 8 guys. It sort of bothered me in the beginning, but it is what it is.

Marchbride07 Posted:

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Thanks you all! Except, my girls do not have guys and are probably not going to invite guests, unless they meet someone fairly soon...I could have the guy dance with his girl friend and the two girls dance together!

DanNette Posted:

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if one of the girls has a date they can dance with their date and the other can dance witht he groomsmen. I have the same problem too!
Heather11207 Posted:

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Posted by Tiggeruth

Our bridal party is uneven (5 girls, 3 bots) but I am not going to specifically have the 'bridal party' join in the dance, we are going to open it up to everyone



We have 5 girls, 8 guys - this is what we're doing too.
aimes1313 Posted:

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Posted by Heather11207


Posted by Tiggeruth

Our bridal party is uneven (5 girls, 3 bots) but I am not going to specifically have the 'bridal party' join in the dance, we are going to open it up to everyone



We have 5 girls, 8 guys - this is what we're doing too.



Us too.
We have 4 girls, 5 guys
jenn122397 Posted:

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hmm i never even thought of that - does one of teh girls have a husband or bf that can maybe dance with her while the other girl dances with the partner?

kittythestray Posted:

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I had everyone in the bridal party dance with their actual husbands/dates rather than each other. I find it extremely awkward to have people who barely know each other dancing together as their dates or spouses are standing there all alone. I know when I am in a bridal party I hate being forced to dance with someone other than my husband. When they were introduced, I had the 'extra' BM announced with her date when they came in.

Dnn518 Posted:

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I have the same problem. I have 5 girls and 6 guys. But when it comes time to dance, I am leaving it open for everyone to join.

MattandTricia07 Posted:

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My sister who got married almost 7 years ago, had me and my two other sisters in her wedding party, but my BIL had only 2 best men. One of the men had 2 of us but we didn't do a first dance so we didn't have to worry about that. Perhaps don't make them dance with each other for the first dance.

mycrayon1 Posted:

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I'm trying to figure this out too. I have 6 BM and 8 GM (don't ask )
Anywhoo, What we are planning on doing is doubling up for the ceremony and the introductions, but 2 of the guys are bringing their GF so they'll jump in and dance with them half way threw our dance.
HTH
BellaChandella Posted:

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ive been to a wedding like that.

the MOH walks and didnt have anyone the entire night, and when it came to dancing, her brother came and danced with her.

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