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Ungrateful gift receivers...whats up with that?

Xelindrya Posted:

Ungrateful gift receivers...whats up with that?

I posted before that I got all my gifts from Dooney & Bourke this year (except for the BIL).

I REALLY nice large cashmere scarf (made in scotland) for the fFIL and some suade mittens as well. He opens it up and says (I swear I wanted to kill him) “oh look, a scarf, hrm.” And the other? “Mittens? Wow who knew adults wore such things, last time I saw mittens I was five”. I had to leave the room. Made an excuse of going upstairs to get the SIL & BIL. Those mittens were expensive and high quality and that scarf was luxurious! All this from a millionaire man who gave me a $25 sweater and left the TAG on it!

I came back down and my MIL is DREWLING over the scarf she appreciated it, at least. Then I got to hear some whackjob story about how fFIL was bitten by bees when he was younger which stunted the growth of his hands via his Lymph nodes..??!??!?!?!? Wha? I must have tilted my head (as I have a tendency to do without realizing it) cause he says “Well, these are extra large gloves, or didn’t you notice” Are you kidding me? Unlike you, I DID notice. I mean this guy is HUGE tall. And the large were snug on Jim’s hands so we went with XL. Unlike him who apparently thinks I am a ‘large’ woman.

Bah humbug!

Then his little sister (which I will assume will figure it out later) opens her periwinkle purse and matching clutch in signature Dooney along with the compact gloss and eye shadow kit from Estee Lauder in matching leather and her reply? “Oh, yeah, thanks for the stuff” with a quizzical look on her face as to say “what the hell was that?”

That’s it. They’re all getting CARDS next year!
Xelindrya Posted:

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On the brighter side,……….

His grandmother loved her scarf and tote bag. Actually she was just looking for a new tote. This one is light weight and meant to be refolded into a small compact carrying case. The leather handles make it durable as well. The scarf (though slightly thinner than the one the fFIL got) is just as luxurious as the one from Scotland, and is Italian Cashmere. All Dooney & Bourke of course.

MIL loved her scarf as well (same as grandmother’s just different color) and really loved the purse we got her. Here’s where fFIL says “that look like it’s high quality” Oh, REALLY? You don’t say? and then asked, “Do we need to treated it with crème, you know how things made in Asia are cheap” Uhmm!!! WHAT?! This is where I have to say “It was made in Norwalk, CT and it’s all weather leather, no treatment necessary”. Him: “It may say it’s made in Norwalk, but it’s a scheme, you know how those Asians are.”

Oh I have to stop and remind you my husband is Chinese!!!! “THOSE ASIANS?”

I have to kindly tell him “No, I actually purchased it directly from the manufacturing location during a once year tent sale I normally attend. They are indeed expensive purses but I made the annual journey to get them and reasonable prices”. Jim and his mother are watching this like a tennis match. “The Japanese made my car, Harvey, but just average Americans made my purses although as you can tell from your gloves and scarf, they do make things in Scotland and Italy as well.”

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

Luckly at this point the brother comes down sorta in the middle of this and looking pretty dumbfounding himself with the “those Asian” remarks and says “uhm, hey guys, Jim, Veronica loved the gift card, thanks” heh

Tis the Season!!!

At LEAST everyone loved my Tacos!

Kriss2c Posted:

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You can shop for me anytime.
luvsbob4603 Posted:

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yeah me too! that was very generous of you to get that for your family. at least Fil could have been more appreciative.
soon2bmrs2004 Posted:

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Posted by Kriss2c



You can shop for me anytime.



Me too! I would love all of those gifts!
hbradio Posted:

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You can get me any of those gifts anytime as well!!!

janwinterbridejoy Posted:

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those are great gifts some people just have no taste. you can give me there gifts next year. i want to go to that sale next year it sounded amazing

Xelindrya Posted:

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Thanks guys

Joyanne.. yer welcome up with me on that Saturday Dec 10!
(yes, isn't it sick I know the date already!?)


janwinterbridejoy Posted:

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Posted by Xelindrya

Thanks guys

Joyanne.. yer welcome up with me on that Saturday Dec 10!
(yes, isn't it sick I know the date already!?)





im there marking my calender now
dm24angel Posted:

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Sounds like my Dad...In his defense, not too many men understand Cashmere...and my BF sounds like his sister, if I gave her a D&B bag she would ask if I bought it at Mandee...rude comments are not neccesary, so I agree with you there , that they could have been more tactful but give them the benfit of the doubt.

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