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Unhappy BM

Julybride08 Posted:

Unhappy BM

I think one of my BM is unhappy. Everytime I talk about wedding stuff she don't answer me or changes the subject. I know her sister is getting married also. Do you think I should ask her what is wrong? I think she is just upset cause were getting married and her BF is in cali for the past 2 years and she has only seen him maybe 4 times. And he'll be out there another 1 1/2 years she said. But in the begining she was so invloved and then her sister got engaged and it was like it all stopped.

DnellD809 Posted:

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Maybe she is just really sad that she's not with he BF and she sees all the people that are close to her getting MARRIED and starting their lives together. You should definitely ask her about it and let her know that your there for her and maybe she just needs a little attention!

Julybride08 Posted:

Re: Unhappy BM


Posted by DnellD809

Maybe she is just really sad that she's not with he BF and she sees all the people that are close to her getting MARRIED and starting their lives together. You should definitely ask her about it and let her know that your there for her and maybe she just needs a little attention!

Yeah I will. were going to dinner thursday so I'll ask her about it then.

I think it just really is that though. I think she is really feeling left out cause like you said everyone is getting married.
MikeandJess Posted:

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yea I'd talk to her about it, she'll probably even appreciate it. If she is upset that her sister and her close friend are getting married, it would be a hard thing to talk about but if you brought it up first, she'll probably feel more comfortable letting it out.

FutureMrsRice Posted:

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Maybe she is just wedding'ed out. Between you and her sister, I am sure she hears about weddings a lot

Maybe you could do something with her not wedding related (a movie, dinner, mani/pedis, etc...)

Good luck!!

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