uninterested MOH

My sister is my MOH. She is just completely disinterested in everything that has to do with my wedding. She claims she has no clue what to do but shows little or no interest in any of it. I've tried to talk to her and explain things that she is 'supposed' to do (i.e. the bachelorette party) I even told her that I'm a little hurt by her lack of interest. She rolled her eyes and said 'here we go again'.

The worse part of this is that we are soo close. She is by far my best friend and its hurts so much to feel like I'm bothering someone with my wedding.

But yet, when her BF started talking about the possibility of HER getting married, I was supposed to be all happy, and I was. But I couldn't help but think that she didn't show any interest where I was sooo happy for her! What is wrong with that picture???

Sorry to vent, but no one else will let me. Mom says I expect too much from people, FH says to pick another MOH, theres no one else to talk to.

i am getting the feeling someone is a little jealous of you...
she will come around

She's 4 years younger. So shes 22. Even if she's jealous, why wouldn't she want to be a part of this????

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Posted by nbird

She's 4 years younger. So shes 22. Even if she's jealous, why wouldn't she want to be a part of this????

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Becuase she is losing her best friend/big sister to a guy...


Everything will be different because she is not your 'one and only' anymore, your FH will be....do ui still live at home w/ her?

Yes we still live at home together. I mean, it doesn't seem like that at all. It really seems like she just doesn't want to be bothered with it. Its like this is an annoyance.

The girls dresses came in and I said, isn't that exciting, its so close! She said, sarcastically, Woo Hoo.

UGH!!! I am so pissed at her. I can't even look aat her!

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Posted by nbird

She's 4 years younger. So shes 22. Even if she's jealous, why wouldn't she want to be a part of this????

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If she is anything like my little sis (4 yr difference as well) she probably just likes attention and may be jealous of the attention aspect.

I am sure she will come around. Have your bridesmaids call her and offer to help. If she starts getting involved with your other BMS, maybe that will kinda move things in the right direction.

When my brother got engaged, I was upset, for many reasons which are too much to get into right now.

Shortly after they got engaged, my mother started going with FSIL for dresses and my mother was buying everyhting in sight that had to do with a wedding, and I got a little upset.

So, now my brother is engaged to this girl after 1 year, and I was dating FI for 3, and now she has my mom wrapped around her finger too.

Not that I was totally jealous, but if it were my SISTER, I would be.......just something to think about.......

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Posted by curliegirl

When my brother got engaged, I was upset, for many reasons which are too much to get into right now.

Shortly after they got engaged, my mother started going with FSIL for dresses and my mother was buying everyhting in sight that had to do with a wedding, and I got a little upset.

So, now my brother is engaged to this girl after 1 year, and I was dating FI for 3, and now she has my mom wrapped around her finger too.

Not that I was totally jealous, but if it were my SISTER, I would be.......just something to think about.......

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I was going to say that too... is she seeing anyone?

i agree with your fh pick a different MOH having someone difficult in your wedding can ruin the event
i am still cutting out footage with one of my bms in it cause she made the day so diffucult i want to forget she was there!

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Posted by jill13bean

i am getting the feeling someone is a little jealous of you...
she will come around

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that's what I was just thinking - sounds like jealousy to me

I have to agree sounds like she's either jealous or sad that you wont be around as much anymore once you get married. Is there a bridesmaid that might want to be more involved even though your sister is the MOH. Maybe once your sister realizes that your turning to someone else for input she'll come around and help out.

sounds like jealous of you, but she will come around

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Posted by nbird

My sister is my MOH. She is just completely disinterested in everything that has to do with my wedding. She claims she has no clue what to do but shows little or no interest in any of it. I've tried to talk to her and explain things that she is 'supposed' to do (i.e. the bachelorette party) I even told her that I'm a little hurt by her lack of interest. She rolled her eyes and said 'here we go again'.

The worse part of this is that we are soo close. She is by far my best friend and its hurts so much to feel like I'm bothering someone with my wedding.

But yet, when her BF started talking about the possibility of HER getting married, I was supposed to be all happy, and I was. But I couldn't help but think that she didn't show any interest where I was sooo happy for her! What is wrong with that picture???

Sorry to vent, but no one else will let me. Mom says I expect too much from people, FH says to pick another MOH, theres no one else to talk to.

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I am in that same boat with my sister
I told her she is suppose to make my life easier not worst so she said then take me out of the wedding party