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Uninvited Guests at wedding

KrisBren2011 Posted:

Uninvited Guests at wedding

How would you or did you react if you had uninvited guests show up at your wedding? I have a feeling FMIL will have at least one guest there that wasn't invited and just wondering how everyone else dealt with it?

Soon2bShea Posted:

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I just post about this earlier lol! Seems to be the theme today

I had someone RSVP with an uninvited guest this morning, its FH's uncle so I am leaving it alone BUT if someone shows up the day of uninvited...not sure what really can be done about it unless you have them 'removed' lol
DANAnPATRICK Posted:

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Posted by Soon2bShea

I just post about this earlier lol! Seems to be the theme today

I had someone RSVP with an uninvited guest this morning, its FH's uncle so I am leaving it alone BUT if someone shows up the day of uninvited...not sure what really can be done about it unless you have them 'removed' lol




Hire a bouncer for your wedding and believe me FH has thought about this I was like ummm NO!
KrisBren2011 Posted:

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Posted by DANAnPATRICK


Posted by Soon2bShea

I just post about this earlier lol! Seems to be the theme today

I had someone RSVP with an uninvited guest this morning, its FH's uncle so I am leaving it alone BUT if someone shows up the day of uninvited...not sure what really can be done about it unless you have them 'removed' lol




Hire a bouncer for your wedding and believe me FH has thought about this I was like ummm NO!




Oh really? Sorry..I totally didn't see the earlier post.

Omg, and don't think the Bouncer idea hasn't crossed my mind!!

Dana...do you want to come be my bouncer????
chilly313 Posted:

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Posted by KrisBren2011

How would you or did you react if you had uninvited guests show up at your wedding? I have a feeling FMIL will have at least one guest there that wasn't invited and just wondering how everyone else dealt with it?




Can you address this with her ahead of time? Tell her that the seating chart will be done and that anyone who wasn't invited and shows up will not have a place to sit (and that if she does have uninvited guests there, she will have to pay the RH for them).
KrisBren2011 Posted:

Re: Uninvited Guests at wedding


Posted by chilly313


Posted by KrisBren2011

How would you or did you react if you had uninvited guests show up at your wedding? I have a feeling FMIL will have at least one guest there that wasn't invited and just wondering how everyone else dealt with it?




Can you address this with her ahead of time? Tell her that the seating chart will be done and that anyone who wasn't invited and shows up will not have a place to sit (and that if she does have uninvited guests there, she will have to pay the RH for them).



Nope, Unfortunately neither I nor FH is on speaking terms with FMIL right now because of this. She wants us to invite her Supervisor at her 2nd job to our wedding. FH told her no and she will not stop bugging..didn't offer to pay for her plate, nothing... so now I have a strange feeling that the lady will be there whether we like it or not.
IrishAli Posted:

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We did have an estranged family member that we were concerned about....he would be the sort to crash a wedding. I just gave my DOC a heads up and let her know that if I saw him, I would let her know and she would take care of it along with the Banquet Manager

Ang9483 Posted:

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Posted by DANAnPATRICK


Posted by Soon2bShea

I just post about this earlier lol! Seems to be the theme today

I had someone RSVP with an uninvited guest this morning, its FH's uncle so I am leaving it alone BUT if someone shows up the day of uninvited...not sure what really can be done about it unless you have them 'removed' lol




Hire a bouncer for your wedding and believe me FH has thought about this I was like ummm NO!



My hubbys family is late to EVERYTHING and I dont mean an hour I mean party would start at like 1 and they come strolling in at 4 or I told my inlaws to warn everyone they better not come late to the wedding. I told my hubby if they do I am hiring a bouncer to tell them to leave He knows I am right but he just at me. I would never do such a thing of course but I secretly want to
KrisBren2011 Posted:

Re: Uninvited Guests at wedding


Posted by Ang9483


Posted by DANAnPATRICK


Posted by Soon2bShea

I just post about this earlier lol! Seems to be the theme today

I had someone RSVP with an uninvited guest this morning, its FH's uncle so I am leaving it alone BUT if someone shows up the day of uninvited...not sure what really can be done about it unless you have them 'removed' lol




Hire a bouncer for your wedding and believe me FH has thought about this I was like ummm NO!



My hubbys family is late to EVERYTHING and I dont mean an hour I mean party would start at like 1 and they come strolling in at 4 or I told my inlaws to warn everyone they better not come late to the wedding. I told my hubby if they do I am hiring a bouncer to tell them to leave He knows I am right but he just at me. I would never do such a thing of course but I secretly want to



DANAnPATRICK Posted:

Re: Uninvited Guests at wedding


Posted by KrisBren2011


Posted by DANAnPATRICK


Posted by Soon2bShea

I just post about this earlier lol! Seems to be the theme today

I had someone RSVP with an uninvited guest this morning, its FH's uncle so I am leaving it alone BUT if someone shows up the day of uninvited...not sure what really can be done about it unless you have them 'removed' lol




Hire a bouncer for your wedding and believe me FH has thought about this I was like ummm NO!




Oh really? Sorry..I totally didn't see the earlier post.

Omg, and don't think the Bouncer idea hasn't crossed my mind!!

Dana...do you want to come be my bouncer????




I would sooo be your bouncer...I can wear a personalized shirt to that says Brides B*tchy Bouncer
Yankeeelove Posted:

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I mean, uninvited guests can show up if they want, BUT there won't be anywhere for them to sit. So if they feel like standing the whole time and not eating, then sureeee We haven't gotten any added guests to our rsvp cards, and if we did I would have called them and said they can't come

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