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UPDATE DAD IS GONNA BE OK I'm so depressed, don't want to plan the wedding anymore

Original post by Bebalina

Hi Ladies,

I've been MIA for about a month now. So much has happened.
To make a very long story short, my uncle passed away a few wks ago, and it was just horrible going thru the whole ordeal in the hospital with him, to make things worse, since he's doesn't live in America, we had to ship his body overseas. Since his family doesn't have much money, my sister, myself, and my cousin had to pay for this. Unfortunately, I had to dip into my wedding $ and now I'm close to 4K short. Hoping I can make it up somehow. To make things worse, I had to travel overseas to ensure the arrival of his body, and while I was there ( my parents live there too), during the funeral, my dad suffered a heart attack, and suffered another one later the same day. Hopefully he'll be ok...I pray. I can't tell you how depressed I've been lately. The wedding is the last thing on my mind, but I realize I need to get back into the flow of things, but just can't bring myself to get back into these details. I feel like none of it is important anymore.
I really need LIW to pull me back into the swing of things. Make me remember why all of this was important.

I'm sorry to go on like this. And I hope everything I just wrote makes sense. Love you.
MRSJLK Posted:

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we are all here for you, so sorry you have to go thru all of this
BriBri529 Posted:

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We love you too!!!! We are all here for you!!!!
GettingMarried0402 Posted:

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Sorry that you are going through all of this. Things will get better, I'm sure.

slwh2005 Posted:

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I'm so sorry to hear that you're having such a hard time. Things will get better.
mushsgrl Posted:

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these are for you
halfpintny Posted:

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I know how you feel after saving up enough money for my custom designed ring (five months) and putting up with my mother who NEEDED to know when it would be so she could PLAN...i get engaged and my 90 year old grandmother gets sick and lands in the hospital. They are thinking it's cancer, or luekimia but they don't know. My mother is paying for a lot of the wedding now but her mind and our family's is not on it. We went to see a hall and I asked if the bathroom was handicapped accessible and my mother started crying saying that it didn't matter because grandma wasn't going to be around much longer. It is rough but I have found focusing on the love you and your FH have for each other and distracting yourself with small details helps a lot. Hang in there sweetie! You're in my prayers
allaboutthecake Posted:

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I am so sorry that you have been going through so much. I can't imagine going through all of that in such a short period. You must be in shock and exhausted. It might take awhile to get back into the swing of things. I just hope that your father is going to be OK, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Please let us know what we can do.
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Bebalina Posted:

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Ladies I can’t thank you enough for the love and support. Since FH and I have been engaged things haven’t been easy. When we got engaged, the next morning, my grandfather had a stroke, so nobody really cared about us obviously, and then 2 days later he passed, come January of this year, FH and I got into a very bad car accident, ended up in the hospital, but thankfully we’re here to tell you about it, I just go for treatments for my injuries now.
Come March, my aunt passes away from cancer. Come the summer, FH’s dad has a few small strokes. We’re hoping he’ll make it for the wedding as well, but he’s also a much older man, older then my grandfather was. And now all of this that’s happening. I tell you ladies, what doesn’t kill you only makes you stronger. I feel like FH and I have been tested this entire year, kinda to see can we make it thru all of this. I handled all of the events this year OK, but this one kinda was the last straw, since it affected me the most. But enough of my sob story, mom just called me to let me know how dads check up was, and he’s gonna be ok. He’s just never to go to another funeral again and keep his stress level low, otherwise another heartattack could occur, being the end of him.
I just want to thank you ladies soo much for helping get thru this with your love and support. And for helping me get back into the wedding planning….
LOVE YOU!!
kimmiekakes Posted:

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I just wanted to say I am so sorry to hear all this,but it will get better. I know that sounds bad, but it will. It will take time,but you have the people around you that you need to give you the support and love. Hang in there!

ckgmwedding Posted:

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I am so glad your dad is going to be ok! You deserve some good news and happiness!!! On to the stress of wedding planning for a little fun and relaxtion. For you, I am sure it will be!
Bebalina Posted:

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Posted by ckgmwedding

I am so glad your dad is going to be ok! You deserve some good news and happiness!!! On to the stress of wedding planning for a little fun and relaxtion. For you, I am sure it will be!


thanks hunny!!
KimberlyBride Posted:

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Sending you love and big hugs
d&d05 Posted:

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I'm so glad you're dad's ok!
Jan05Bride Posted:

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So happy your father is feeling better
FLaCaTaCa Posted:

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So happy he is going to be ok!!!
DebsNY Posted:

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So glad to hear that! I hope that things begin to look up even more for you and your family....
angelbear217 Posted:

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Glad to hear things are picking up!! So happy your dad is doing better.

Robinella Posted:

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So sorry...I Hope everything is ok :(

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