There has been alot of drama lately with FMIL.( A few weeks ago FH asked her to be involved and she said she didn't want to be...and then went around telling everyone we didn't want her to be involved ) So tonight we are SUPPOSED to go over there and have a chit-chat with FMIL and straighten out a few things. (Also, FSIL is under the impression she is a bridesmaid, although she isn't...that should be an interesting situation as well)
If we don't go over to talk to FMIL tonight, I will definitely have a bridezilla moment. I have been waiting to get this whole thing straightened out for weeks and she is always too tired or busy to talk to us about it. So if this is not taken care of tonight, I am going to be so upset and will probably land myself on the 6pm news
Wish me luck!
UPDATE: We met with FMIL last night (I am still shocked she made time for us ). It was the first time she has acknowledged the wedding and the whole conversation was quite awkward. We got alot of things straightened out with her. FH decided last minute (he felt guilty not having his siblings be in the BP) so FSIL and 2 FBIL's will be junior bridesmaids and junior groomsmen. We don't want a large BP so FSIL and my FBIL's will have limited responsibilities the day of. Another check off my list!
Alyssa79
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good luck sweets. just try and act like the 'adult' in this situation
MNM91710
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Good Luck!
Becca2010
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Ouch! Good LUCK!!!!
futuremrsjc2010
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Goodluck, hopefully your FSIL wont be too upset
StaceyWill
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Good Luck!!!
babsbeark
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Good luck but i'll watch the news just in case
mrsdraskin2009
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OOhhhh girl!!!!
Good luck!!!!
stinenandy2010
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good luck!
Iluvpoodles
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Good Luck. Have you considered letting FH deal with his mother and having him talk to her alone? I know if I was you I would end up flying off the handle and telling her what I really thought lol.
stinenandy2010
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o and from personal experience, since this is your FMIL, try to have your FH do most of the talking...
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Posted by stinenandy2010
o and from personal experience, since this is your FMIL, try to have your FH do most of the talking...
I should add that FH is scared of his mommy
MarjorieFrank
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Good Luck! That is such a tough situationt to deal with
MarjorieFrank
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Posted by Soon2bShea
Posted by stinenandy2010
o and from personal experience, since this is your FMIL, try to have your FH do most of the talking...
I should add that FH is scared of his mommy
Aren't they all
Iluvpoodles
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Didn't you know all MIL's are delicate little glass dolls who will brake if heaven forbid they are putin their place lol.
Clover23
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Good luck - hope I don't see you on the news... i might fall off the treadmill! But really... i know how you feel, so I hope it doesn't get 'canceled' and I hope everything goes as smoothly as possible.
KatieG2010
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Good luck. I definately would not want to be you. How are you going to break it to the FSIL that she is not in the BP? That's going to be tough...
little j
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good luck!!
GiannisWifey
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Good Luck!! Let us know how it goes....I will keep my fingers crossed that she doesn't cancel and I will keep my fingers crossed for her that you don't kick her a$$!!!!!!!!
