Update: Invites -- what to do with FMIL
FILs are paying for half the wedding and invites are in. I need to stuff them and they have not paid their half. I don't want to lay out the $$ because I don't trust them to give it back.
I was planning to pick up mine and stuff those so at least something goes out rather than hold everything up but FH says that if I do that, his parents will get insulted. Thing is, EVERYTHING insults them. It doesn't have to be wedding-related. So here's my question:
Do I take care of my invites and if they get insulted so be it, at least mine went out OR do I hold off for them. But who knows how long it will be.
Personally, I'm finding it insulting that they don't acknowledge my emails....
FMIL's mother is sick so i understand they are busy. But I'm only asking them to take two minutes out of their day to pay the store over the phone. Oy!
I was planning to pick up mine and stuff those so at least something goes out rather than hold everything up but FH says that if I do that, his parents will get insulted. Thing is, EVERYTHING insults them. It doesn't have to be wedding-related. So here's my question:
Do I take care of my invites and if they get insulted so be it, at least mine went out OR do I hold off for them. But who knows how long it will be.
Personally, I'm finding it insulting that they don't acknowledge my emails....
FMIL's mother is sick so i understand they are busy. But I'm only asking them to take two minutes out of their day to pay the store over the phone. Oy!
