UPDATE: Major Bridezilla Attack pending if this doesn't get resolved soon!!!!!!!!!!
Ok so here is the update...
I spoke to my aunt a few days ago and although I had a minor anxiety attack ahead of time, it went surprisingly well. i think because I caught her at the aiport at the time, she didn't have room to yell. however, the first words out of ehr mouth after our intial polite words was 'I got your invite and my son is coming.' there was emphasis placed on the 'my son.' I calmly said my rehearsed lines, stressing that we had had to cut out several people among our friends, not jsust our family sue to the small budget and she was silent for a long moment before she said, 'no problem. I'll tell my son.' Again emphasis on the son.
I felt horrible because I am a very sensitive person which is why I hide behind a razor wit and she was being so calm about it I almost burst out telling her it was ok to bring him. But then I remembered all the years they snubebd me and my mom and how I was not invited to their wedding and I smiled and said,' Thank for being understanding, Titi. See you at the wedding. Love you.' She said the same and we hung up.
Now... I spoke to my dad and he said he's just waiting for the call because we know there must be buzzing behind the scenes. He said there is the possibility of them saying they are coming and not coming, but we are planning a plan B-to enlist my Uncle Nelson's help. He is the youngest of the clan and lives with my aunt and has nNO qualms about calling her out. We know even if the others do not come, he will because he reserved before the STd was sent out lol.
So right now I feel a little better though still waiting for the other shoe to drop. Lots of worries including damn witch at the post office who didnt wnat to take my invites that day to drop em into the bucket(wanted me topush em through the slot and they were bending.) Anyway after some arguing, she took them but now, I've had about 10 people tell me they never got one and we've only recieved 20 responses out of 70 invites sent so we're worried. if its not one damn thing its another!
I spoke to my aunt a few days ago and although I had a minor anxiety attack ahead of time, it went surprisingly well. i think because I caught her at the aiport at the time, she didn't have room to yell. however, the first words out of ehr mouth after our intial polite words was 'I got your invite and my son is coming.' there was emphasis placed on the 'my son.' I calmly said my rehearsed lines, stressing that we had had to cut out several people among our friends, not jsust our family sue to the small budget and she was silent for a long moment before she said, 'no problem. I'll tell my son.' Again emphasis on the son.
I felt horrible because I am a very sensitive person which is why I hide behind a razor wit and she was being so calm about it I almost burst out telling her it was ok to bring him. But then I remembered all the years they snubebd me and my mom and how I was not invited to their wedding and I smiled and said,' Thank for being understanding, Titi. See you at the wedding. Love you.' She said the same and we hung up.
Now... I spoke to my dad and he said he's just waiting for the call because we know there must be buzzing behind the scenes. He said there is the possibility of them saying they are coming and not coming, but we are planning a plan B-to enlist my Uncle Nelson's help. He is the youngest of the clan and lives with my aunt and has nNO qualms about calling her out. We know even if the others do not come, he will because he reserved before the STd was sent out lol.
So right now I feel a little better though still waiting for the other shoe to drop. Lots of worries including damn witch at the post office who didnt wnat to take my invites that day to drop em into the bucket(wanted me topush em through the slot and they were bending.) Anyway after some arguing, she took them but now, I've had about 10 people tell me they never got one and we've only recieved 20 responses out of 70 invites sent so we're worried. if its not one damn thing its another!
