Update on FI

its a tough time to go through....just as long as he knows he's not going through it alone should help...be strong

Wow,,, I am so sorry! I hope that you and FH find some bits of sunshine while you are there with him. Keep strong!

Keep your head up and stay positive for you FH, he needs that.!!!

for you and FH. He will get through it! Stay strong for the both of you right now! Easier said then done I know.

I send my best wishes to you and FH in this horrific time. Stay strong!!

Hes scared...remind him of everything he has to live for....
hes in my thoughts.

I am so sorry. You're both in my prayers.

I am so sorry to hear this.

There is a book called The Secret -- it is one of the Oprah Books. It is all about the power of postive thinking and how to go from negative to positive thinking. It could be worth a try.

Continue to stay strong!

Going to make is short and simple since I'm on my brother's laptop. I just came back today from TnT (via New York to A-Town) and I'm still worried for FI. I feel like shaking him to get out of his depression and just come back home to the states. It's very obvious over there than they aren't doing much to help him. He was released yesterday but it didn't shake off his mentality. He told me as I left that I should just forget about him and move on with my life, which really hurt me because all I was doing is being his 'strength' for him so he can fight this. I'm going to fight for him no matter what. Hopefully he would get with the program and come back home to New York or even stay with me in PA to get treatment because he needs to get well... not for a wedding but because he's a wonderful person with so much to live for.

It is going to suck to call my vendors to tell them the wedding is canceled until further notice. But I would need to do this because his life means more to me than a color scheme or how many people to invite.

Once again ladies, thank you for your thoughts and prayers. I'll try to come back here soon. Love you all.

---

Posted by DomTriniBRL

Going to make is short and simple since I'm on my brother's laptop. I just came back today from TnT (via New York to A-Town) and I'm still worried for FI. I feel like shaking him to get out of his depression and just come back home to the states. It's very obvious over there than they aren't doing much to help him. He was released yesterday but it didn't shake off his mentality. He told me as I left that I should just forget about him and move on with my life, which really hurt me because all I was doing is being his 'strength' for him so he can fight this. I'm going to fight for him no matter what. Hopefully he would get with the program and come back home to New York or even stay with me in PA to get treatment because he needs to get well... not for a wedding but because he's a wonderful person with so much to live for.

It is going to suck to call my vendors to tell them the wedding is canceled until further notice. But I would need to do this because his life means more to me than a color scheme or how many people to invite.

Once again ladies, thank you for your thoughts and prayers. I'll try to come back here soon. Love you all.

---

I hope you get him back to the US where doctors can help him.

don't worry about the wedding. You are right, his life is much more important. Stay strong and we will all be praying for you both and you know we are here if you need an ear.

I'm so sorry that you're going through this. You, FH, and your families are in my prayers and thoughts!

He's so lucky to have you, good luck to you and your FH

I'm soooo sorry you are going through sooo much. I'm sure you are very fustrated...you are trying to be there for fh but he is pushing you away with his negativity. Just remember he must be scared so you just have to keep being strong and try to get him to come to the states so he can get the proper treatments he needs.

Sending you lots of

My thougts and are with you both. Stay strong! I know you guys will get through this.
Please keep us posted.