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update on me

MuchInLuvMichi Posted:

update on me

Hey Everyone, I have received so many amazing FMs and messages regarding my situation with my bf (now ex) and I really appreciate all the kind words and well wishes. This time has been very tough and your advice has really gotten me threw alot of it.

Basically to update you all on my situation. We have officially broken up and he has moved out of our house. i am handleing it ok. i am filled with mixed emotions for him..one minute i love him, hate him, am confused by how all this happened but I am mostly trying to move on and focus on the positive..

We were able to talk alot of things out and i certainly dont regret the 3 years with him but i cant make him b a different person so we are no longer together..as many of u told me he needs to mature grow up and we all know he lost the best thing he ever had..me:)

so for now im doing good, re-decorating MY apartment in sage green and pink i might add lol and just trying to go out and meet new pple, make new friends, instead of being bummed out..

i really look fwd to meeting many of u at the g2g even tho ill b a single gal out on the town with all the happily engaged/married couples lol, but for now im gonna enjoy my single self and by looking at all of u it helps me believe that there really are soulmates out there who love each other

so like i said thanks so much for all those who were so supportive all this time:)
You guys and girls r the best.. :)
boosh78201 Posted:

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Glad to hear your doing better!! Looking forward to meeting you too!

Dont worry you will have a great time!!
kel2004 Posted:

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I'm so glad to hear you are doing well! You have a great attitude!
eogara Posted:

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Sooooooooo glad to hear this!! When you meet the real Mr. Right you'll see even more how much better off you are without this guy.

Kriss2c Posted:

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Glad to hear that you are doing well. It is a process and unfortunately a necessary one. Thanks for the update. FM if you feel like talking.
julz33 Posted:

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I am happy that you are doing better DO you live in Queens?
brideinapril Posted:

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It does sound like you are doing SO MUCH BETTER!!! I am so glad to hear this.
I was wondering how you were.
Anniegrl Posted:

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Good for you for making the right choice! Better to break up then to stick around and waste your time try to make him change. I have a friend that's convinced that she can change men, but not only does she get hurt when she finds out time and time again that you can't, she also wastes her time. She's now 32 years old and still not married......

Scoop Posted:

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Best of luck to you and keep up the positive attitude....you deserve the best in life, so make sure you get it.

I applaud you for your strength.
MuchInLuvMichi Posted:

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thank you ladies for being so supportive, to answer the question yes i live in flushing queens:)

FeliciaDA Posted:

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I am SO very glad to hear you are doing so much better ! You are stronger than you think, and have made such progress already. I'm VERY happy for you!

Just take this time to be really 'selfish' and do whatever it is that makes YOU happy .. you will come away from this experience so much healthier (mentally) and stronger than you ever expected from yourself.

GOOD LUCK!!
Valentinegirl Posted:

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Good for you!!! I'm glad you are feeling better.
TracyInQueens Posted:

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Lots of luck to you!

Dee7772 Posted:

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I'm so glad to hear you are doing well. Stay strong.
LIJuneBride Posted:

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I wish you only the best - better things are to come!

kpny622 Posted:

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Michelle you have FM

MrsK-in-June05 Posted:

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I am happy to hear you are doing good. I look forward to meeting you at the gtg.
don424 Posted:

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yes it will be fun to meet all of you

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