Ok girls for those of you who have been praying thank you and please continue...
background for the newbies... my mom on november 9th suffered from a brain hemmorahge where she was hospitalized for 4 weeks. unable to eat now has feeding tube, and unable to really walk and carry on with her normal day life. she was a construction worker... and loves to be on the goo.
she is home now.. we are doing home care and awaiting surgery. it has been so rough. each day i go hope dreading when the phone rings.. i feel so bad i feel like i am taking it out on everyone. but i am finding it very hard to be happy. feels like everything goes wrong for me. i have this black cloud over me and cant seem to shake it. WE met with the neurosurgeon again yesturday and he still has no answers. how does he expect one to sit and wait. so needless to say i am going to do my own search. even though i dont get responses as easily as he would. thanks for letting me vent. i will keep you all updated. sorry for the delay.
it just broke my heart when she told me the other day that regardless of the outcome my weddin still must go on as scheduled. not sure i can do that.
Eva-and-John 07
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I'm so sorry Good luck with your search for answers. You'll both be in my thoughts.
LaurenF
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that must be so hard for you. i can only imagine how hard it must be to sit and wait. however, if nothing is imminent right now, that can only be taken as a good sign. the longer she stays stable, the better her chances are of healing. good luck with everything.
aprlflwr
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THis must be very difficult for you right now. Many for you and your family.
sugar4spc
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thanks... it is very difficult. my whole life is being affected by this. definately not something i thought would be an obstacle during wedding planning. she is only 45 years old. Did i mention.. she is so scared she wont be around that she has knitted 3 babby blankets and i am not even pregnant yet. lol I love her so much.. other night i sat in target parking lot and cried for 2 hours wishing i could change the world. why does it always happen to me. must be the kennedy curse
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Keeping mom in my thoughts and prayers
happygirl07
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good luck in your search. Hope everything starts turning for the best for you.
AllJoy
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I know its hard to see a parent suffer (I've been there), be strong. I know its hard, but try not to let her see you cry.
Jayla127
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You and your family are in my prayers.
Jenn n Lance
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My God, Stay strong, everything will turn out fine- we are all keeping you, your mom and your family in our thoughts and prayers
Trishthedish
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I am so sorry for what you and your mom are going through. You are both in my thoughts and prayers.
Please keep us updated and try to keep your head held up high.
slimstaci
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your mom and family will be in my prayers
snydl40
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You and your family are still in my prayers. I am sure your mom appreciates how strong you are being for her and your family.