UPDATE: to wanting to off FH!

I THINK I'LL LET HIM LIVE! We had a HUGE discussion yesterday and I mean HUGE! It was about 3+ hours or so long. Everything was laid out on line bc I don't BS for anything. I tell it like it is bc it's better to know how the person feels and deal with it then not saying how you feel bc you don't want to hurt feelings.

Today he went out and bought a chandelier for the dining room and put it up. He changed all the doorknobs, had keys made for the front door locks, and now he's picking us up dinner.

I appologize if anyone thought I would really hurt him. I'm a lover not a fighter- I just look scary when i'm mad

Thank you for letting me vent bc I thought I was going to have a heart attack. I was so frustrated and angry.

To all you great girls!!

I knew it was going to work out. I am so glad you guys were able to talk it out

glad everything's ok

Glad to hear things are going smoother today.

I don't think anyone thought you would really hurt him even though you really really want to. Glad to hear everything is working out for you Nic.

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Posted by JIFFY

I THINK I'LL LET HIM LIVE! We had a HUGE discussion yesterday and I mean HUGE! It was about 3+ hours or so long. Everything was laid out on line bc I don't BS for anything. I tell it like it is bc it's better to know how the person feels and deal with it then not saying how you feel bc you don't want to hurt feelings.

Today he went out and bought a chandelier for the dining room and put it up. He changed all the doorknobs, had keys made for the front door locks, and now he's picking us up dinner.

I appologize if anyone thought I would really hurt him. I'm a lover not a fighter- I just look scary when i'm mad

Thank you for letting me vent bc I thought I was going to have a heart attack. I was so frustrated and angry.

To all you great girls!!

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I am so happy you guys talked it out.......that is the best medicine! It's hard for some people but when you do it, it feels amazing! I'm like you, I tell it like it is. If you don't like it, then I'm sorry, but It's better to tell the truth and not sugar coat it ........

Seems like he's got the idea and it's showing.....YAY for you two!!!!

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Posted by JIFFY

I THINK I'LL LET HIM LIVE! We had a HUGE discussion yesterday and I mean HUGE! It was about 3+ hours or so long. Everything was laid out on line bc I don't BS for anything. I tell it like it is bc it's better to know how the person feels and deal with it then not saying how you feel bc you don't want to hurt feelings.

Today he went out and bought a chandelier for the dining room and put it up. He changed all the doorknobs, had keys made for the front door locks, and now he's picking us up dinner.

I appologize if anyone thought I would really hurt him. I'm a lover not a fighter- I just look scary when i'm mad

Thank you for letting me vent bc I thought I was going to have a heart attack. I was so frustrated and angry.

To all you great girls!!

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I'm so glad you sat down and had a conversation with him and were able to work things out! This is such a great foundation to the start of your marriage. I believe that communication is crucial!! Congrats on your acomplishment in maintaining cool with him and making yourself heard!

Don't forget to 'THANK HIM' Later

That's so good to hear! I'm telling you, thank goodness for this site and being able to vent on here! Sometimes putting it all out there really does make a world of difference. So glad it all worked out for you!

So happy to hear now everythind is okay, and talking is the best medicine. Most important: I am glad that you didn't kill him..

Nic, I'm so glad that you & FH were able to talk through things.

Glad you worked it out!

omgosh that's soo great!! you sounded really upset and you had every right to be. you let us know how much you put on the table and how little he was doing. good for him he shaped up! yay :)

Oh Nic! you poor thing! I'm glad everything is OK now..just keep repeating..'13 days! 13 days!'

im so glad that youre feeling better about it. you sounded REALLY upset before!!!

Glad it worked out.

Yayyy !! So happy everything worked out for you

i am happy things are woking out for you