UPDATED AT THE BOTTOM(IM A A$$)Kinda wedding related....Ever feel like nobody likes you anymore?

Original post by LuckyMe

Sep 17, 2007 10:31 AM

Im having a really bad time right now and Im sure it will pass. I think of myself as a nice person and always there when anyone needs something unconditionally however I know I can be a reall Bit** if need be. Some of you know that I've been having problems with my mom and sister so they are not coming to my wedding well I've noticed that two old friends who I dont really talk to all the time anymore because we've kinda grown in seperate ways so we speak maybe twice a year are not returning any of my phone calls or emails! I dont think I could've done anything to upset them because like I said we dont really see each other except at get togethers or at our birthdays we always call each other. As a matter of fact I didnt even know my friend was pregnant until I got an invite to her shower and she was already 7 months! I dont speak to my inlaws for numerous reasons with DH and I recently got in touch with someone I havent seen since we were 12yrs. old(we were bestfriends)and they too stopped replying to emails. My cousins kids dont reply to my emails. I told DH if Im doing something to piss these people off I'd like to know what it is because I def. didnt mean too and if this keeps up Im not going to have anyone to invite to our wedding. It'll be very empty in the room! Sorry it's been on my mind and I dont really have anyone to talk to! Thanks

LuckyMe Posted: Sep 18, 2007 09:35 AM

Re: Kinda wedding related....Ever feel like nobody likes you anymore?

Posted by MPAS

Posted by LuckyMe

Posted by MPAS

AWWWWWWWWW dont say no one likes you, we like you!!!
I might have to invite all you LIW girls to the wedding. No really it's not that I feel like no one likes me literally I just feel like all of the sudden no one is responding to me anymore My two friends are bothering me though because it's never like this. If I leave a message or they leave a message we always get back to each other atleast within a week.

Are they in your BP? Maybe they are on vaca etc etc. I have a feeling closer to my wedding no one is going to like me

No not in the BP but since the baby was due at the end of Aug. I doubt they are on vacation and my other friend hasnt called me either but we'll see what happens. I'll be your friend closer to your wedding If you'll be mine Im gonna have to put up an open invatation to LIW girls to fill my room the way this is going I could have the next WOTY(free though)

MzHopesAlot Posted: Sep 18, 2007 01:54 PM

Re: Kinda wedding related....Ever feel like nobody likes you anymore?

AWww
I know what you mean
thats why we postponed

Toucan311 Posted: Sep 18, 2007 02:29 PM

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I know that sometimes it might not be intentional. I have friends that I've just lost touch with, and not because of a falling out, just as we get older people tend to get more and more wrapped up in their own lives! I'm not saying that eventually its normal to not have friends, but I know from personal experience (you guys know that I was feeling really down a month or so ago) that being happy isnt about having quantity, its about the quality of people. I'm thankful that I have my family, FH, and a few (very few!) close friends, and I know that eventually even these friendships will become less of a priority as FH and I start OUR life together... its just how things happen, its the way of the world. Your friend may be so wrapped up in her pregnancy that she hasnt even thought about how her actions look to you. Don't worry! I'm sure its nothing that YOU did! Plus you always have all of us here to vent to!

LuckyMe Posted: Sep 19, 2007 12:10 PM

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Okay! Found the end of the drama with my two friends(two out of the I DONT KNOW 10 PEOPLE isnt bad, right?)and alittle pissed still but more so feel like an A$$!
Well ya see my one friend whose phone is disconnected just a bought a house and moved(yeah would've been nice if she had sent me a card or something)and my friend who was pregnant well see at 9months pregnant found out her husband had a brain tumor the size of a tennis ball and had to have emergency surgery and spent 10days in ICU and another few days on a regular floor stressing that his wife was gonna go into labor without him. Well he gets out of the hospital and she goes picks her mom up from the airport and they go to her doctors appt. and her blood pressure is through the roof so the doctor tells her she has to be induced ASAP(this is labor day weekend)well once they induce her she went from 0 to 4cm in an hour so they told her it would be quick and instead wound up stuck at 4 for 10hours and her blood pressure cont. to go up and started affecting the baby so they had to rush her in for a c-section and she started losing so much blood they had to knock her out completly to deliver the baby. So she didnt find out she had a baby girl until hours after delivery. So now her and her husband are out of work until after christmas. Her husband continues to have seizures that paralyze his left side of his face and his left arm. I told her this was more of a reason to call me or have someone else call like my friend who moved I live 15min from her and I could've atleast stayed with her in case she went into labor or helped with the baby while the two of them are recovering. She said they are going to doctors every day for her,or her husband or the baby. So my daughter and I are going to go by and help with stuff and I told her I will drive her and her hubby anywhere they have to go until she feels up to it! I very, very glad that they are okay! I really hope this isnt the drastic response I get from the rest of my MIA friends and family! Anyhow, Just wanted to say thanks again for the thoughts and help and if I can be so bold please, please, please pray for my friend and her husband if you have a free minute. Thanks You girls are the best!!