I was really worried she was going to come down hard on me for giving my cousins the boot from my BP.
What she told me brought back the rage I was feeling just 2 weeks ago.
While visiting my family in KS in February she had a long talk with my 2 cousins Rae and Jen and asked them why they hadn't sent measurments etc. They hemmed and hawed and told her they didn't think they coud afford it etc. The plane fare, hotel and rental cars yada yada yada.
My Aunt told them both they needed to let me know ASAP and that i wouldn't be mad, but they needed to let me know.
My Aunt always goes home for the whole month of February. She had this convo with them the 1st week of Feb. and the 3rd week, so 2 weeks had passed and they still hadn't been measured and neither one of them wanted to tell me they didn't want to come.
So basically I allieviated their problem by telling them they were stressing me out, and that they were OUT of the BP!
And they couldn't have been to hard pressed for money having booked a 2 week vacation to Crete Greece and Rome Italy in April.
FutureMrs.T
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You 'fired' bridesmaids....lol
failurebydsign
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thats awesome
seems like you did it with no problem at all
your the bride
as the great frank once said
i did it my waaaaayyyyyyyyy
Shelly9697
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OMG!! Who?? Why?? lol
MrsK2008
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Posted by failurebydsign
thats awesome
seems like you did it with no problem at all
your the bride
as the great frank once said
i did it my waaaaayyyyyyyyy
I feel so much better now that I did it too!
I am going to have to do exactly what you did, I gaurantee my family is going to ditch my wedding. Those punks!
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Good for you! If mine tick me off - they're FIRED!
all these spoiled @ss cousins had to do was get me their measurements and buy a ticket to get here. I was going to pay for their dresses as well as hair and make up and those good for nothing b!tches kept putting it off!
I have had it!!!!!!!!!
I can breathe now
Seriously, I love my family, but they have been pampered way too much!
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You shouda said....
You ARE the weakest link... GOODBYE!
the oldest cousin wouldn;t answer her freaking phone!
which figures, she hasnt answered my calls for 2 months, or returned one
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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wow.... and to think that its the FAM members that u cant count on... thats sad!!!!
MrsK2008
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wow.... and to think that its the FAM members that u cant count on... thats sad!!!!
my family is a bunch of self loathing whack a do's
Good for you!! This is your special day and you shouldnt have to chase them around like they are children!! They should know what they have to do and just do it!!
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wow that's crazy! it seems like you made a good decision though craziness i tell ya!!!
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All I can say is this:
YOU GO GIRL!!!!!
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it's true.
They all just really ticked me off.
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hahaha, so did I !!!!!
Goooo us!
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it's true.
They all just really ticked me off.
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My friend did that to her MOH and one of her bridesmaids. They weren't helping her out at all with wedding related things. She got so angry she kicked them out.
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it's true.
They all just really ticked me off.
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My friend did that to her MOH and one of her bridesmaids. They weren't helping her out at all with wedding related things. She got so angry she kicked them out.
I am doing everything. I am not running a daycare, I am trying to get married.
I should have mailed them diapers with a note inside to show them what big babies they have been. .............and a binky!
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I am doing everything. I am not running a daycare, I am trying to get married.
I should have mailed them diapers with a not inside to show them what big babies they have been. .............and a binky!
Very well put Kim!!! Good for you for taking a stand and not putting up with this bull anylonger!
Im just curious/....how did u fire them? Were you able to get intouch with them? are they mad?
