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UPDATED: NEED ADVICE (DON READ)

MuchInLuvMichi Posted:

UPDATED: NEED ADVICE (DON READ)

ok so im outside of work and this guy and i make eye contact, hes so cute we r hecking each other out..i pretend to b on my phone so i have an excuse to b outside.... he goes in his car and then he went to the store next to my job....its obvious we r both trying to make convo with each other but i wouldnt make the first move even tho i was dying to...so then he comes up to me introduces himself and asks if i wanna go get coffeee?? mind u im standing infront of my job not even on a break just cause i wanted to c him, so i said oh i would love to but im working right now, ill take a rain check tho...he asks for my number, i give it to him, he says he will call me....did i play it ok, should i have taken my break and gone for coffee right then??? or would that have been to eager....do u think he will call, i hope he does.....

Don-- im trying to 'Make him 'glance at the cover' You don't want to give him 'too much of the story' before he 'buys the book'

UPDATED:
so he called me last nite..turns out we even graduated from the same college...we r going out Thursday nite cause I told him I was going to the Yankee game Friday.... :)
HearzBellz Posted:

Re: NEED ADVICE (DON READ SINCE IM FOLLOWING WHAT U TOLD ME!!!)


Posted by MuchInLuvMichi

me....did i play it ok, should i have taken my break and gone for coffee right then??? or would that have been to eager....do u think he will call, i hope he does.....


I may be a little out of practice, but I think taking your break might have been a bit over the top.

Did he think you were already on a break????
don424 Posted:

Re: NEED ADVICE (DON did i follow ur advice well enough??)

perfection!!!!

taking your break would have made you seem way too eager.

Guys want a challenge -- if you let them win too fast, they'll lose interest. I'm not saying be a snob, but in this instance, I think you did the right thing.

I have a pretty good feeling that he'll call.

MuchInLuvMichi Posted:

Re: NEED ADVICE (DON did i follow ur advice well enough??)

THANKS DON UR THE BEST :) ILL KEEP YA POSTED

MuchInLuvMichi Posted:

Re: UPDATED: NEED ADVICE (DON READ)

bump

don424 Posted:

Re: UPDATED: NEED ADVICE (DON READ)

excellent! and i like how you threw in the fact that you have a game fri night

MuchInLuvMichi Posted:

Re: UPDATED: NEED ADVICE (DON READ)

hehehe exxactly, i wanted to make it seem like i have pre-conceived plans so we will hafta meet around MY schedule lol...

MuchInLuvMichi Posted:

Re: UPDATED: NEED ADVICE (DON READ)

thanks jenny:)

must admit im nervous tho, not sure what we r doing yet...hes gonna call tonite to make the actual plans...im thinking something short and sweet incase we dont click well:)

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