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UPDATED: Not A Happy Birthday...for me

MillerFord742008 Posted:

UPDATED: Not A Happy Birthday...for me

Well ladies...all of you know about my FH and I breaking up. And I started to work last week. I failed to tell you that my God brother was killed just a few days ago. And at 3am in the morning my oldest brother called to say that my nephews were in a car accident and one of them died.

This is suppose to be a happy day for me. But I do not know what to do.

This goes way beyond what your reading...

I was with my Godbrother a day or so before he got killed and he made sure I walked in my door safely...next thing you know I hear he was killed in brooklyn.

One of my nephews drove me home last week and wanted to make sure I got home safely because it was tooooooooooo cold outside.

The other nephew I seen him yesterday and he made sure I got home safely and said when I start up my own company that he wants me to hire him.



Why is all of this happening?

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Update:

Well Ladies here's the update...my nephew who is 25 died on impact he was the driver they slid on ice. My other nephew whom was in the car who is 16 is in critical condition but he is awake and talking but is totally unaware of his brothers death. My girl cousin who is around 20 years old and is 5 months pregnant is in bad condition. And her friend is in CRITICAL condition and has trauma in all areas. They were all taken to different hospitals and do not know about the death of my nephew.

As for my birthday...I called Fh and told him that I really need him to come spend time w/ me because I just need someone right now. He had to go to his parent's house and he came over around 4 and left at 8:30. When he arrived I hugged him and then he wrapped his arms around me and hugged me regular at first and then he hugged me tight and gave me a kiss on the top of my head. I felt sooooo good. My birthday was full of the unknown. And I was overwhelmed from the tragedy but was strange is my FH came out and my day though stressful brightened
AMGBride2008 Posted:

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Oh Toni.... I'm so sorry to hear about all of this I will say a few prayers for you and your family. We're here to help you get thru some of this. Again, I'm so sorry.

Happy Birthday by the way I'm sorry you have to share your day with such sadness.
karen6474 Posted:

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i'm sooo sorry about your loss! what a tragedy!!! a horrible one!! my heart really goes out to you & your family! i'm also sorry about you & FH- i hope things will work out- you deserve to be happy. i really hope you have a happy b-day!
tdebe Posted:

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I'm so sorry!!! I'll keep you and your family in my prayers.
nifheim Posted:

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I feel so horrible. I am soo sorry for all the things you are going through.

cmrcmr0430 Posted:

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I feel terrible for you with all that's happened....I'm sorry!
KADJLC Posted:

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I'm so sorry...my thoughts & prayers go out to you & your family.
TheMrandMrsof2008 Posted:

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I am so sorry for all of your losses. If you think about it, you have many angels in heaven.. or whatever you believe in.. celebrating your BIRTHDAY.
enjft Posted:

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So sorry to hear this. There are no words to console you. I will keep ur family in my prayers
blu6385 Posted:

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i am so sorry to hear and by the way happy birthday
TLC1018 Posted:

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OMG....I am so sorry that you're going through all of this!!!!!!!!
jennielovesbryan Posted:

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im so sorry that this is all happening to you.. have faith that everything will look up.. just know were all here to help you get through it..
happy birthday!
ShanonandSteve Posted:

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I am very sorry all this is happening.

You and your family are in my prayers.
tara08 Posted:

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Toni I am so sorry for all you are going through. We are all here for you....

Kimbalina Posted:

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I am sorry that you have hit a rough patch. I will keep you in my thouhts.

ant n tilde Posted:

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i am so sorry about all that is going on - you and your family are in my prayers - please keep faith that things will get better - we are all here for you if you need to talk
SAMORY Posted:

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My prayers are with you and your family. Stay strong.

SoontobeMrsH Posted:

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Toni, there is not one word I can say to take the pain away, but please know that you & your family are in my thoughts and prayers, please also know that I am here to talk to you any time you want
megzzie Posted:

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Toni, I am so deeply sorry! You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers
ZeppsGirl Posted:

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Hey Toni

I dont have any words for you. I can not imagine what you are going through and can only tell you that I have you in my thoughts and prayers.

I will be here for you if you need to talk or vent or yell or scream. I wish you strength in this time of need and sadness.

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