UPDATED: Torturing my Life-sorry def long have patience with me please lol

So, I have mentioned before how I'm obsessed with even numbers and the number 2. I have always wanted to get married on the first Saturday in October, still warmer but still Fall. So, when FH and I agreed on 2010 as the year for the wedding I was thrilled to see that the first Saturday in October was the socond, 10-2-10, awesome lol! So as we look for halls in AUGUST OF 2008 lol, every one we look at out of the 6 we saw had the date open except for Jericho Terrace which ended up being the place we really wanted. Keeping with the fact that we wanted the first weekend in October, we agreed to Friday, October 1st. Now, I thought I'd get over not having the date I always wanted. However, it did still bother me every now and then and then this Saturday a situation caused my breakdown lol. (Keep in mind this post is serious yet still me laughing bc I am well aware it is not the end of the world, just me being anal and a bridezilla and needing to vent aka thanks for reading!).

So I go to the tailor to get a dress altered and I ask if he alters wedding gowns, he says yes and asks when my wedding is. I tell him October 1, 2010 and bc God likes to torture my life, the tailor tells me that his daughter's wedding is October 2, 2010. I wanted to cry right there. I explain how that was my dream date yadayada, but it was booked. Then I go to my workout class to try and feel better but still don't when I get out. Call JT just to double check that the second is booked and it is. The only Saturday opened in October is the 16th. Because now I'm obsessing over if it should be a Saturday, since that was what we originally planned. I'm concerned about work friends, etc. I know it's the same, those who care will be there. But I'm still obsessing bc I'd like everyone there but the ceremony is at 3 cocktail hour at 7. We're doing the VH so we don't want to start the reception later. FH thinks I'm absolutely insane at this point and doesn't want to hear it. I guess I just needed to vent about my internal struggle. The negative Friday comments from people also don't help the situation but whatever. Sorry to bore you with the lengthiness of this post blahhh.

So, am I crazy for considering to change the date to October 16th?? FH's birthday is also the 15th if that matters at all. We also already bought save the dates for October 1, they wouldn't break the bank to redo, just thought it's something that should be mentioned.

I'm posting this bc I've been discussing it with work friends and my other close friends but what better group of people to discuss it with than other brides who may understand a little better.


UPDATED AT THE BOTTOM SORRY!