UPDATED....ahhhh need to Vent (long)
UPDATE AT BOTTOM OF PAGE.......
Hey girlies so this is a VENT about my ex-matron of honor who is my ex-best friend.
We will call this person HER!!!!
When I got engaged on Christmas Eve 2005 the first person I thought about to be my maid of honor was my cousin and then i was like but I would like HER (who is my FH cousins wife) to be by my side as well. So I was like well she could be the matron so i asked her she accepted. I wrote her and my cousin a thank you note and told HER how she was like a sister to me.
Time went on in Dec 2006 she starts a huge fight with my FMIL and pulls out of the wedding. . . . the fight was over FH grandmother hitting the baby on the hand cause she was trying to eat glass. . . harmless to the child, just to tell the baby no. . . they didnt like that my FFIL didnt yell at his wife. So stupid. . . well on friday i get an email from HER saying that Im this awful person and how i should have invited her to my shower. . um it was a surprise i didnt invite anyone and then she goes on to say i havent talked to her in 6 months, why would i the last thing she said to me was that my FMIL talks about me and hates me which i know isnt true at any level. . . . so i write back and tell her nicely that shes is trying to cause trouble but its not going to tear the family apart. . so she writes back and attacks my parents who she doesnt even know. . . then goes on saying that we are living in a basement apartment rent free cause we dont want to pay our bills W T F we are paying our bills not my fault we have parents who care about us. . . (we are living in his parents basement for a year cause our house is being built but they arent starting it till January. .) but what is it her buisness anyway . . . . . she got me so heated shes out of the family and she has to bother me and all because she is jealous. . cause her husband is cheating on her she wants everyone to be miserable. . . I WANT HER TO STOP EMAILING ME just leave me alone. . . any suggestions. . . when i dont write back she sends me the same letter 5000000 times and my FH called her husband but that didnt do any good.
Hey girlies so this is a VENT about my ex-matron of honor who is my ex-best friend.
We will call this person HER!!!!
When I got engaged on Christmas Eve 2005 the first person I thought about to be my maid of honor was my cousin and then i was like but I would like HER (who is my FH cousins wife) to be by my side as well. So I was like well she could be the matron so i asked her she accepted. I wrote her and my cousin a thank you note and told HER how she was like a sister to me.
Time went on in Dec 2006 she starts a huge fight with my FMIL and pulls out of the wedding. . . . the fight was over FH grandmother hitting the baby on the hand cause she was trying to eat glass. . . harmless to the child, just to tell the baby no. . . they didnt like that my FFIL didnt yell at his wife. So stupid. . . well on friday i get an email from HER saying that Im this awful person and how i should have invited her to my shower. . um it was a surprise i didnt invite anyone and then she goes on to say i havent talked to her in 6 months, why would i the last thing she said to me was that my FMIL talks about me and hates me which i know isnt true at any level. . . . so i write back and tell her nicely that shes is trying to cause trouble but its not going to tear the family apart. . so she writes back and attacks my parents who she doesnt even know. . . then goes on saying that we are living in a basement apartment rent free cause we dont want to pay our bills W T F we are paying our bills not my fault we have parents who care about us. . . (we are living in his parents basement for a year cause our house is being built but they arent starting it till January. .) but what is it her buisness anyway . . . . . she got me so heated shes out of the family and she has to bother me and all because she is jealous. . cause her husband is cheating on her she wants everyone to be miserable. . . I WANT HER TO STOP EMAILING ME just leave me alone. . . any suggestions. . . when i dont write back she sends me the same letter 5000000 times and my FH called her husband but that didnt do any good.
