UPDATED....Long Vent....FSIL/BM Problems

jennarose023 Posted: Sep 17, 2008 07:13 AM

UPDATED....Long Vent....FSIL/BM Problems

Had to pull it down...just in case...FM if you want to hear the story!

emomma17 Posted: Sep 17, 2008 07:23 AM

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OMG of course you have a right to be upset, I think she should understand the situation. I know how we can be sometimes when we want to be certain things get done for our wedding, but the deadline isn't till November 15th so she should be more understanding. And the point was missed, if you had to you could probalby do it but being that your wedding is in one month that money has to go towards your wedding, I completely understand and get it. Yes I would have been very upset if that happened to me.

jennarose023 Posted: Sep 17, 2008 07:26 AM

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Posted by emomma17

OMG of course you have a right to be upset, I think she should understand the situation. I know how we can be sometimes when we want to be certain things get done for our wedding, but the deadline isn't till November 15th so she should be more understanding. And the point was missed, if you had to you could probalby do it but being that your wedding is in one month that money has to go towards your wedding, I completely understand and get it. Yes I would have been very upset if that happened to me.

Thanks....I feel like all she is doing is trying to steel my thunder every chance she gets! i have my BP on Saturday...she will be there, and I better not hear one word about this stupid dress! I think i've reached my breaking point with stress...i feel like a zombie today.

anamaree77 Posted: Sep 17, 2008 07:59 AM

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That's annoying. I would be slightly pissed too but don't let it overcome you. Sounds like she's jealous that your time is here and you're getting all of this attention so she wants to make her wedding 'equally important.' I would just ignore any comments made, you made your decision about the dress and stick to it.

jennarose023 Posted: Sep 17, 2008 08:06 AM

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thanks! yeah this was just the last thing i needed right now

anamaree77 Posted: Sep 17, 2008 08:11 AM

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Listen....don't let anyone get to you. I don't know what anyone's problem is but you'll notice alot of people will stir up issues that you really do not need to deal with right now. It happened to me and ALOT of the girls on here. Please do not even pay it any mind....go on with your day and if the issue comes up, just pleasantly let them know that you got it under control. Enjoy your time now because it goes sooooooooo fast! You're getting married in a few days, be excited for you and FH and forget everyone else. This is YOUR time to be selfish, trust me!

jennarose023 Posted: Sep 17, 2008 08:13 AM

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Thanks

RisiLeigh Posted: Sep 17, 2008 08:33 AM

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Wow... you DEF have a right to be mad and upset! That is so ballsy! I don't understand people sometimes, I swear.

I know it's easier said than done, but try not to let it get to you. I had a LOT of drama going on before my wedding between my MOH and FSIL (a BM) and I definitely let it get to me waaay too much (as the girls on here will attest to LOL), but everyone can now say 'I told you so' since they all said everything would be fine on our wedding day, and it was! FSIL even apologized to MOH!

I know how you feel - if the dress issue comes up at all during your BP, you're going to want to pop her one! Maybe shoot them 1 final email and just let it be known that the dress issue is over, you're getting it in Nov., and there's no need for further discussion.

Grrrr some people!

jennarose023 Posted: Sep 17, 2008 08:43 AM

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thanks...i was thinking about sending a final email, but FH told me to just leave it alone so i will...i don't want to open up a can of worms! i def have let it get to me way too much, i feel completely done today. I think i hit my stress threshold, but I'm gonna try and just let it go!