I'm so upset I don't know what to do. I'm sick of crying. I want to speak to the other girls, but I don't want to make things worse. I feel like FH and I should have just eloped. This wedding has caused such a strain on some of our friendships.
canoli
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WOW that's mature. try and relax I would block your number and call her.
BrideToB
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Aww, I'm sorry you are dealing with this. From the outside looking in, it looks like MOH was mad about something and maybe vented to the other girls and kind of turned them. If she's tweeting about you (SO immature, please don't tweet anything back, that just makes it worse) maybe you still need to give her time to cool down. But I'd at least try to reach out to the other girls and see what happened. They don't seem to be as mad. Maybe you can turn them back on your side and they can help your MOH get over it. :( I hope it all turns out OK.
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Sh*t just got real. Turns out MOH is tweeting about me. Bad stuff. Can this get anymore out of hand? I want to give the other girls their space but I honestly can't even imagine what MOH told them. I want to end this. I can't handle this.
Soooo immature, what is this, high school? Don't let anything bother you for another minute. They're acting ridiculous. If they have an issue you with you they should confront you like adults. Leave it alone for a few days and let them come to you. You tried many times to resolve it...the ball is in their court and at some point they HAVE to see and speak to you.
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Sh*t just got real. Turns out MOH is tweeting about me. Bad stuff. Can this get anymore out of hand? I want to give the other girls their space but I honestly can't even imagine what MOH told them. I want to end this. I can't handle this.
That is truly awful. I can't imagine what I would do in your situation. Can you get an idea of what her anger is about or is it just all over the place? You obviously were very close at one time since she is your MOH. How incredibly immature.
Sorry, I don't have any good advice except that I have been in similar situations with members of my family and we didn't speak for years. Luckily, it wasn't the month before my wedding though. It finally took a third party to break the ice and now we are back to being very close. It took a long time before the other person was willing to give up her anger though.
Weddings bring out things in people you never thought you would see. Even in our RSVPs, I have been so touched in some and a little hurt by others.
