as i posted the other night, I booked phot, video, limos, & flowers on thursday night. FH and I had gone to Ariana studios together about a month ago and I went back on Thursday to book them. FH and I barely even saw each other Thursday, Friday and today. He's been working wierd hours and he just comes home and sleeps on the couch. Today I stayed home all day cleaning and he gets home at 5:30 from work, changes and falls asleep on the couch(knowing that we had to go to my parents for dinner at 8). He wakes up late, blames me for not waking him up sooner! He proceeds to rush me, we go to my parents, everything is fine..we get home at 12. now he's back in his pjs and asleep on the couch, I asked him to stay awake a little longer and he looked at me like i was crazy.He's like 'why cant i sleep?' i flat out tell him that we havent spoken 2 words to each other all week and he says well we have tomorrow.
sorry this turned out a lot longer than i planned. I know he isnt trying to be rude and annoying but sometimes i think he forgets that i need some convo time. i know he's tired...but so am i.
dream426
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I'm sorry. Its hard when you are looking forward to seeing him and talking to him and he falls asleep. Hang in there and maybe you will be able to discuss it more tomorrow with him. Don't worry.
Espo22
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Sorry ...i know it ***** when you want to spend time with them and that happens...But sometimes you are just toooo tired and cant...today i napped for 3 hours in the afternoon and Fh kept trying little things to wake me up...We did have most of the day together went shopping and then went to brunch but after i knocked out but i guess he wanted to wake me up since tonight he is staying at his friends house bc they have their football playoffs for their league at 8am. So i do understand both sides
Snowflake08
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i agree with denise too i mean, sometimes when youre tired, you simply cannot stay up there are days i get home and cannot keep my eyes open - if this is not how he is ALL the time, then im sure he was just super tired
ZKAT22
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thanks for your advice and support girls. it means a lot to me. i have to stop stressing over such insignificant things.
I do feel better..thank you
dream426
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Posted by ZKAT22
thanks for your advice and support girls. it means a lot to me. i have to stop stressing over such insignificant things.
I do feel better..thank you
we all can get that way..its normal..lol
SugaBeans
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I know what you mean. FH is a mailman and walks 10 miles a day. when i see him at 5:30 i am ready to go out and do things, hes already in his sweats and a tank top. I know he works really hard everyday so i try not to let it bother me but sometimes he has to give a little to.
Kimbalina
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I think you needed to get it out and you did~ I have that problem with ME and my FH,, somedays it just doesnt work out for time spent, but the ones in between matter most
michellecarin
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it sure does help getting things off of your chest. I am sure once FH gets a bit of sleep things will be back to the way they usually are. Its hard when you are so happy to see someone and then things don't go as planned and your mood can do a 180.
nifheim
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its upsetting when your awake and the fh is tired. Fh has been working extra hours (sotmetimes 7a.m.-1:30am) and he comes in and just drops dead and gets up kisses me goodbye and is dead again. Today he is home on his first day off in two weeks. As much as i miss him he said i could come over but i know in the end i would watch him sleep so i am staying home.
I think its best just to go out see some friends say hi to family, etc. And let fh rest he needs it and as much as we miss fh's when he is finally awake and happy again then they will pay attention and make up for it.
