Im so annoyed right now... so far TWICE this week I have gotten random fms from two different people (one being a vendor) about vendors that i chose when i didnt even ask a question!!! One was from a bride telling me that the bridal salon where i ordered my dress s ucks and just now another one from a florist vendor telling me, after seeing a post i made about boquets that i wanted, that the flowers in that boquet are not available during my time of year, when in fact I already met with my florist and she told me she could get them!! Am I over-reacting with being annoyed with this? If i want advice I'll ask for it... but i dont like people just randomly fmming me with advice with something I didnt even question... how would you feel if someone started fmming you randomly telling you the vendors you choose stink??? stuff like this makes me NOT want to log onto LIW!
sarahbelle
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That would annoy me too! I'm sure your vendors will work out
070306
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I think you have a right to be annoyed. I would be too. Willow Creek is beautiful. Best of luck. Don't let this bring you down.
Love_my_Freddybear
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jes81276
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I would be annoyed too. I can never understand why people push their opinions on you when you didn't ask for it!!
ElegantBride
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I saw this quote somewhere on the boards today but it so applies in this situation.
'Opinions are like A-holes...Everyone's got one, but most stink'
ChrissynRicky
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It's obnoxious, but you have to keep in mind that this is a public board, and your information is unfortunately not confidential. Business is business and , especiallly in this industry!
salsbride06
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YEAH THAT WOULD ANNOY ME TOO
MissingTheBGene
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I can understand if you posted a direct question, but to FM you without specifically asking for it is quite rude, IMO.
Wintersbride
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Ugh! Yeah, that would annoy me too.
cjb88
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thanks girls!! i just wanted to make sure i wasnt turning into a bridezilla!!
beautyq115
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You are completely right to be annoyed..I HATE UNSOLICITED FMS!!!!! It annoys me soooo much!!
Love_my_Freddybear
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lol that's what happens
EmberLynn
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I know can be annoying, but I believe most of them had good intentions. Just tell them that although you appericate their imput, you have a flourist who is able to get the blooms you want and the other bride tell her your not recieving the same problems see did but thanks anyway.
Jennie0898
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That is SO annoying, but try not to sweat it too much! It's not worth getting upset over.
cindyandkevin
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You're not being a bridezilla at all!! It's really annoying to get advice you didn't ask for, esp from vendors.