usher gifts?

So I read in one of my etiquette books that you're supposed to get gifts for your ushers. Are any of you girls doing that?

Also, I feel like I keep second guessing every decision I make! Like the dress, the location...I keep wondering if I've made the right choices (everything except the guy). Has this happened to any of you?
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OMG I second guess EVERYTHING!!!! Dont even get me started on my RH or my dress lol For me, its far too late in the game to change anything, so I am just going with everything. No worries though, its totally normal and happens to everyone in some way or another.

I don't have any ushers but I have seen that people who do are giving them gift cards, wine or alcohol sets.

HTH!