Vegas is looking better and better. Guestlist nonsense.

So, I am already stressin' about the huge guestlist and that I'm gonna be way over.

Then my MOH calls me last night to tell me she was talking to one of my BM and her fiance.
Apparently, a mutual friend of all of ours (who now only keeps in touch with BM's fiance) is expecting an invitation to our wedding!

He keeps asking BM's fiance what hotels are blocked because he wants to make a reservation. He keeps putting him off, but really feels uncomfortable.

And , BM was surprised he wasn't even on the B-list!

I love this guy to death, and he's really sweet and great, and has always been a good friend, but we were very close in HS and early college. We see each other once a year!

Sorry to be so long, but, am I wrong for not inviting him? I really don't have room! It's not even about $$$$$.

P.S.
this guy hasn't even called or sent a card of congrats

it's very difficult - but you have to decide where to draw the line.

FH keeps telling me let's just go to the judge cause of all the cr@p we've been dealing with

I will start dealing with my guest list next week. But if you can deal with backlash, then stick to your guns. I on the other hand am a bit of a weakling and get nervous when too many folks are mad at me You only spend this kind of money on folks that you really want to be there. Period!

If you don't have the room, you don't have the room. There is nothing you can do. You can't invited everyone!