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Vendor Meals
melnmatt2013
Posted: Mar 14, 2013 01:46 PM+

Posted: Mar 14, 2013 01:46 PM
Vendor Meals
So we paid for 15 vendor meals (Yikes! Reduced price thankfully!!). How do we let the vendors know that we have paid for them? Does my DOC tell them? Maitre D? I want to make sure they are eating since we paid for it!!
Kristin31613
Posted: Mar 14, 2013 02:48 PM+

Posted: Mar 14, 2013 02:48 PM
Vendor Meals
I think the maitre De let's them know.
katnwill
Posted: Mar 14, 2013 03:10 PM+

Posted: Mar 14, 2013 03:10 PM
Vendor Meals
Which vendors did you pay a meal for?
Mindyepo
Posted: Mar 14, 2013 03:20 PM+

Posted: Mar 14, 2013 03:20 PM
Vendor Meals
OMG that sounds like a lot of vendors! Eek... didn't budget for that! lol
lauren1802
Posted: Mar 14, 2013 03:25 PM+

Posted: Mar 14, 2013 03:25 PM
Vendor Meals
i think i'm only at like 5-6....
cupcakegal930
Posted: Mar 14, 2013 03:55 PM+

Posted: Mar 14, 2013 03:55 PM
Vendor Meals
Lauren - Did Larkfield give you the price of the vendor meals? I don't think I even asked!
lauren1802
Posted: Mar 14, 2013 04:07 PM+

Posted: Mar 14, 2013 04:07 PM
Re: Vendor Meals
Posted by cupcakegal930
Lauren - Did Larkfield give you the price of the vendor meals? I don't think I even asked!
after you meet your minimum, vendors & kids 5-12 or something like that are half price. kids under 4? are free.
melnmatt2013
Posted: Mar 14, 2013 04:10 PM+

Posted: Mar 14, 2013 04:10 PM
Re: Vendor Meals
Posted by katnwill
Which vendors did you pay a meal for?
9 Band members
2 DOC & Assistant
2 Photog
2 video
I just realized we also have a lighting assistant that I didn't think of. Hopefully they will just throw that one in
JojoBride
Posted: Mar 14, 2013 08:11 PM+

Posted: Mar 14, 2013 08:11 PM
Vendor Meals
I think the Maitre D tells them the day of your wedding when they can eat BUT I would let them know ahead of time...shoot an email...so you aren't paying for them for nothing!
KandE2013
Posted: Mar 14, 2013 10:42 PM+

Posted: Mar 14, 2013 10:42 PM
Vendor Meals
I worked in a catering hall, and vendors eat when they are hungry, to be simple. Some will go to cocktail hour if they are done setting up equipment, taking photos, whatever, unless someone tells them NOT to. Then they usually have a table set for them during the reception with the amount you paid for and the courses are brought out at the same time as they are for the guests (usually they are served immediately after the bride and groom so they can get back to work while everyone finishes eating). They eat whenever they are not busy, and if they miss a course, so be it.
2013Bride
Posted: Mar 15, 2013 05:15 AM+

Posted: Mar 15, 2013 05:15 AM
Vendor Meals
Like someone above mentioned, I'd definitely let your vendors know ahead of time--unless it's already in your contract--that you paid for their meal (so even if they don't eat it there, atleast doggy bag it!)
natalierose1085
Posted: Mar 15, 2013 01:15 PM+

Posted: Mar 15, 2013 01:15 PM
Re: Vendor Meals
I feel like most vendors know this because it's pretty standard. Usually they eat when everyone else is, if and when they get a chance. Unless you have a really small vendor who doesn't have a lot of experience then maybe talk to them ahead of time.
lauren1802
Posted: Mar 15, 2013 01:37 PM+

Posted: Mar 15, 2013 01:37 PM
Vendor Meals
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