so my FH's sister in law is 1 of my bm's and we kind of had a falling out a few weeks ago, and I called her last week to see if she got fitted yet for her dress, she said no, she was calling the next day, i called her TODAY a week later & she STILL HASN'T GONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What does one dooooooo?!?
AwaitingAugust
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i think it's time for an ultimatum
jackieee
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Maybe give her a deadline. Say the place needs you to be fitted by ______. If you don't go by then, they can't get the dress in time. If she doesn't go, she's not in it. You didn't 'kick her out' by doing that and it puts the ball in her court,
Good luck
Becca2010
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Give her one more chance to do it and then she's on her own. Your wedding is less than a month away, if she doesn't get fitted, then you'll have an uneven BP.
What color is the dress? I'll fill in for her if you want!
AngnShaun
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i agree with the ultimatum... less than a month and she hasnt done it... not cool...
SoontobeMrs.Brown
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Ugh - I hated this part. First off sorry you are going through this. People sukc.
Make a deadline. Tell her if she doesnt have her measurements in by then that shes out. Then you cant be held responsible if she misses it.
good luck
Golden
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Posted by SoontobeMrs.Brown
Ugh - I hated this part. First off sorry you are going through this. People sukc.
Make a deadline. Tell her if she doesnt have her measurements in by then that shes out. Then you cant be held responsible if she misses it.
good luck
ITA! I did this and ultimately lost a Bridesmaid but it had to be done...Good luck and sorry you're experiencing this
GracieJMay2010
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Posted by jackieee
Maybe give her a deadline. Say the place needs you to be fitted by ______. If you don't go by then, they can't get the dress in time. If she doesn't go, she's not in it. You didn't 'kick her out' by doing that and it puts the ball in her court,
Good luck
Excellent advice.
KatieG2010
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its her problem... if she doesnt get fitted then she can't be in the wedding and it will be a bad reflection on her. who cares if teh bm and gm count isnt even- i realized that things liek that aren't that serious. if she wants to be a POS then let her- she's not worth yoru time
BRIDE62610
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THANK YOU GIRLS! I did JUST that and told her she had to go by Monday, and if she doesn't, you're all right it's HER LOSS HER PROBLEM! That's it! I can't focus on her and her bad attitude b/c it's MY day and that's it! If the BP is un-even, oh well, it will be MUCH better than having her sulk around.
